just like most of the responses, this is not a nigerian problem, its a global phenomenon.
the tendency for those who consume a lot of alcohol to chat on the partners is quite high (both men and women), because of some of our african values, women are more reserved at home while men have the unlimited restriction, so we think its a nigerian thing. in the western world, woman are equally free and i tell you i have seen more drunken women than men over there, and tell me what next for a woman who is alcohol laden.
Cheating as to naija men is not a big deal the way it is being taking to other levels....such as having more than one wife and so on......Although i oppose infidelity, i do think that men would be men just as boys would always be boys, however a true man would not risk cheating as a cause when the effect is loosing a loved one or loosing his family(wife and kids) ......Furthermore, to get to the question......
It is the idea that their father's and father's father had many wives would lead to cheating...and also the idea that women are just made for pleasure to men....I strongly disagree with their point of views but Is This New?
As far as i am concerned,cheating is already a culture here,both male and the female folks cheat......so its no issue and as for drinking,naija guys drink responsibly or if i may ask you,how many death has been recorded from drunk driving here??Dont you cheat on your guy??Answer honestly.Dat settles it i think.
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