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Linda Ikeji I never liked SEX, I was circumcised now I Need a Man

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This question is from me...me, as in Linda Ikeji, the author of this blog...:-)

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"Look at this photo Even Mona lisa, Leonardo da Vinci Famous Painting no fine reach this ! Girl friend the men should be beating down your door .Come to think of it you look like Mona lisa sef ! "

So here goes. I haven't been with a man in so long, that I hardly remember what it feels like anymore. Mostly for two reasons. One, I was brought up in a kind of way. I have to really really be into someone before I can share my body with them, and I haven't met anyone special in a long while, so I've been riding solo. It makes me very sad sometimes...
Secondly, I've never really enjoyed sex. And I blame it on the fact that I was circumcised. Some things were cut off, so there's not much sensation down there. I mean, I enjoyed intimacy and when the tonque was at work...*cough*... but penetration was a different case. Half the time, I couldn't wait for him to get off me. (I can't believe I'm writing all these on the internet...hmmm...let's continue sha). So usually, I tell myself why seek something you don't particularly enjoy? What's the point really? So I've basically just stayed away.
But lately I have been feeling somehow and I think it's time to get my groove back. I want to feel like a woman again, so I've decided to find me a man before the end of the year. But I don't want to be turned off sex again. As a circumcised woman, how can I make myself enjoy sex? Does circumcision even have anything to do with it? That's always been my belief because other circumcised women I've spoken with say they don't enjoy sex either...at least not as much as women who were not circumcised.
Do you have any advice for me and other women in my situation? Please I don't want any yéyé responses o. This is a serious matter..:-)

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Permalink Reply by John Aggrey on July 20, 2011 at 7:57am

Get yourself a man. U are pretty. There won't be a problem at all in getting one. U can contact me if u are really serious. I'm searching too. I'm gonna add u as a friend on facebook. My full names are John Agaji Aggrey. Take care dear.

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Permalink Reply by olaiya on July 20, 2011 at 8:08am

Hello Linda,how far ? i read through your message,there is a way you can do that just try to see me i have a method on bed which i can give you that would make you enjoy sex....OK

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Permalink Reply by Rasak Kunle Tijjani on July 20, 2011 at 10:32am

Get your self a man, a very matured one,who can be patient to have enough fore play with you before going into the real thing, with this, I bet you, you will surely enjoy sex to the fullest, he should cares every part of you till the place becomes WET. Give this a trial, your sex life will not remain same again, wishing all the best babe.

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Permalink Reply by Neyoyo on July 20, 2011 at 11:03am

after going through ur article so to say,lol i discovered that there is no way u can get a serious minded man on net, especially concerning ur case.whosoever that ask u out online will always be a use and dump man at the end of the day.am very sure there must be a man that is very close to u as a friend but due to the fact that u dont see him or anyone around u as a man of ur choice,which is the major issue.Try to calm ur nerves and give a chance. am sure the right man will surely set in.

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Permalink Reply by susan on July 20, 2011 at 11:07am

all u need is a matured man who will be very patience with u. turning u on and making sure u reach ur orgasm before penetration. wishing u the best

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Permalink Reply by Malik on July 20, 2011 at 11:09am

Your state of mind also comes to play here.

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Permalink Reply by TAIWO OLUFEMI MATTHEW on July 20, 2011 at 11:25am

Thanks for your courage. It is high time people face reality than ''them say'' however, in your case, My advise for you are these

1. contact your God in prayer before you give yourself to GOLD DIGGER MAN

2. after you have gotten what you want share your problem with your ''BLESSED MAN''

3. consultant your doctor or sex counselor or somebody like Mrs funmi SATURDAY PUNCH on sex issue

4. Ready for the real action after you are wedded.

with this I strongly believe this will surely overcome within time frame but your patience is very improtant not to fall as victim and later back to square one.

Thanks and remain blessed.

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Permalink Reply by Andy on July 20, 2011 at 12:25pm

First, you need to deal with the notion that sex is dirty or not to be enjoyed. Its been built into you one way or the other and you may not know it but its working negatively against you from your subconscious.

Having said that, you need to be with a guy who'll be patient with you. Who will make love to your mind and heart (mind is in the head and you know where heart is) before making love to your body. Foreplay is very important.

You also have to get comfortable with your body. There's nothing dirty about being naked before him (whoever he may turn out to be). If you can get "sweetness" from the "tongue" then believe me penetration will give you pleasure too. There are many pleasure points in and around a woman's private area. Your G-spot is not always your clitoris. Good, constant, long-stroke and unhurried penetration will drive you up and over that cliff. You can even achieve much by just the mere foreplay that involves the breast area.

Lastly, I know a lot of women (I mean know!!!) who have had a circumcision and enjoy sex. its all in the MIND and TECHNIQUE girl. Enjoy it (mind) before you enjoy it (body).

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Permalink Reply by 9jabook.com on July 20, 2011 at 12:41pm

Linda you are hott o ! wetin dey dull you like this !

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Permalink Reply by yusuf bashar on July 20, 2011 at 6:43pm

Linda,it's not a problem as long as you take it positive.One, consider it reality and you will not regret your life no more.Two, sex is never a burden,so it is not as you presume in your submission, I was involved with a friend with similar remarks but it was overcome totally now. My belief is that sex is with the mind not the body, prepare your mind to enjoy it to the fullest and that is it,after all circumcise ladies do Concieve and deliver beautiful babies too. Why allow yourself to suffer when the whole world appreciate your God given beauty, and hopefully excellent talents. Comon, shake off the self inflicted stigma and join the bubbling world. Had it been you are around my world I would have been your pal and show you that the world needs you and indeed miss you.

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Permalink Reply by esohe on July 20, 2011 at 7:01pm

All you need to do is to reprogramme your mind. Delete all the negative things that you have registered about circumcision and sex. I know a few ladies that are circumcised and enjoy sex. It's all about being in the right frame of mind and having a 100 percent likeness for the man you are having it with. You need a man matured not particularly in age i mean mentally and emotionally matured enough to umderstand and help you rediscover yourself. I wish you success in finding that man!

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Permalink Reply by Babalola oluwatosin on July 20, 2011 at 9:12pm

THE FIRST THING IS TO LET YOUR CREATOR KNOW BECAUSE HE MAKE YOU PERFECT AND WHATEVER WHAT MIGHT HAVE HAPPEN IN YOUR BODY HE CAN STILL MAKE YOU PERFECT,CONSULT YOUR DOCTOR I KNOW HE WE GIVE YOU WHAT TO DO AND THE BEST WAY GO GO ABOUT IT,THIRDLY LOOK FOR THOSE THAT THE PROBLEM HAPPEN TO AND HOW THEY COME OUT OF THE PROBLEM.LASTLY CONCERNING A MAN,JUST LOOK FOR A VERY CARING MAN AND PATIENCE MAN THAT REALLY UNDERSTAND YOU,DONT RUSH TO ANY RELATIONSHIP. BECAUSE IF RUSH LATER OR NOW IT WE RUSH YOU OUT.I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST