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This question is from me...me, as in Linda Ikeji, the author of this blog...:-)
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So here goes. I haven't been with a man in so long, that I hardly remember what it feels like anymore. Mostly for two reasons. One, I was brought up in a kind of way. I have to really really be into someone before I can share my body with them, and I haven't met anyone special in a long while, so I've been riding solo. It makes me very sad sometimes...
Secondly, I've never really enjoyed sex. And I blame it on the fact that I was circumcised. Some things were cut off, so there's not much sensation down there. I mean, I enjoyed intimacy and when the tonque was at work...*cough*... but penetration was a different case. Half the time, I couldn't wait for him to get off me. (I can't believe I'm writing all these on the internet...hmmm...let's continue sha). So usually, I tell myself why seek something you don't particularly enjoy? What's the point really? So I've basically just stayed away.
But lately I have been feeling somehow and I think it's time to get my groove back. I want to feel like a woman again, so I've decided to find me a man before the end of the year. But I don't want to be turned off sex again. As a circumcised woman, how can I make myself enjoy sex? Does circumcision even have anything to do with it? That's always been my belief because other circumcised women I've spoken with say they don't enjoy sex either...at least not as much as women who were not circumcised.
Do you have any advice for me and other women in my situation? Please I don't want any yéyé responses o. This is a serious matter..:-)
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after going through ur article so to say,lol i discovered that there is no way u can get a serious minded man on net, especially concerning ur case.whosoever that ask u out online will always be a use and dump man at the end of the day.am very sure there must be a man that is very close to u as a friend but due to the fact that u dont see him or anyone around u as a man of ur choice,which is the major issue.Try to calm ur nerves and give a chance. am sure the right man will surely set in.
Thanks for your courage. It is high time people face reality than ''them say'' however, in your case, My advise for you are these
1. contact your God in prayer before you give yourself to GOLD DIGGER MAN
2. after you have gotten what you want share your problem with your ''BLESSED MAN''
3. consultant your doctor or sex counselor or somebody like Mrs funmi SATURDAY PUNCH on sex issue
4. Ready for the real action after you are wedded.
with this I strongly believe this will surely overcome within time frame but your patience is very improtant not to fall as victim and later back to square one.
Thanks and remain blessed.
First, you need to deal with the notion that sex is dirty or not to be enjoyed. Its been built into you one way or the other and you may not know it but its working negatively against you from your subconscious.
Having said that, you need to be with a guy who'll be patient with you. Who will make love to your mind and heart (mind is in the head and you know where heart is) before making love to your body. Foreplay is very important.
You also have to get comfortable with your body. There's nothing dirty about being naked before him (whoever he may turn out to be). If you can get "sweetness" from the "tongue" then believe me penetration will give you pleasure too. There are many pleasure points in and around a woman's private area. Your G-spot is not always your clitoris. Good, constant, long-stroke and unhurried penetration will drive you up and over that cliff. You can even achieve much by just the mere foreplay that involves the breast area.
Lastly, I know a lot of women (I mean know!!!) who have had a circumcision and enjoy sex. its all in the MIND and TECHNIQUE girl. Enjoy it (mind) before you enjoy it (body).
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