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Married man's Cry:HELP ME ? Condom Broke While Having Sex With "prostitute"

akeem's real name is with held .

I am a 34 year old hapily married man with a fantastic wife and 2 kids.

My wife is the greatest, but last night I got tempted into going to a brothel to see what it's like after many of my friends told me that as long as you wear a condom you wont get hiv .
My firends normally call me woman wrapper and We went out clubbing one night i normally go out with my wife but this time she went for one owambe party/

I ended up going with this nice girl and she gave oral sex (unprotected) and then we had full sex. i was quite drunk too.

However the condom broke, I realised this after about 30 seconds and tried to withdraw but she held me back until ejaculation. She got a new condom, I put it on and then I finished.

She says that she has an AIDS test every 3 months and she has not had a test in 4months and must have had sex with over 60 men including students. But I was not sure until A friend of mine got tested positive recently and he flew out of the country for treatment. Rumours are he has slept with all the girls we had met at the party we went .All from Lasu (Lagos state university.) All the guys in my click have run tio take tests but no one is saying anything !

I am a very sad man, I do not understand why I did it and I WISH I could turn back the clock. I am sorry for myself today. I feel guilty as sin and pray to be forgiven.

What are my chances? I want to tell my wife to protect her but she may leave me and if not probably NEVER forgive and trust me again.

We have sex quite regular (without protection) and will know something is wrong if I don't want sex. I really do love her very much. I will NEVER ever do this again! What do I do?
it has been like 2months since and i am afraid to take a test !

Please help this foolish foolish man.
akeem

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Comment by olayiwola adeite on September 30, 2009 at 2:56pm
BUT GUY NA WAH FOR U OOH ACCORDING TO YOUR STORY ..............AFTER THE CONDOM BROKE U STILL WORE ANOTHER ONE THEN CONTINUED..........................................
Comment by olayiwola adeite on September 30, 2009 at 2:55pm
IF NA TRUE STORY OOH MY MAN GO FOR THE TEST ENUF OTHER CASES DON DEY AND THEY CAME OUT NEGATIVE
Comment by femi on July 29, 2009 at 4:29am
dnt be afraid,a solution is solved wen u say it out,pls dnt give it to d innocent woman,just go out dre and look 4 solution,u can neva turn back the hand of tym,go to d nearest hospital to get tested who knows maybe u dnt even av it at the 1st place
Comment by AGBO OCHE on July 28, 2009 at 3:19pm
Akeem you have done the first step; speaking out. But you MUST realise that to test positive for HIV those NOT translate to having AIDS. And from your naration you truly dont have any reason to fear. PLEASE GO FOR YOUR TEST, @LEAST KNOW YOUR STATUS; FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR FAMILY.
I WISH YOU LUCK...
Comment by ike on July 21, 2009 at 10:16pm
But, from my knowledgw about Hiv I think it take up to 6 months for the virus ake to review in any blood stream? heart, you are negative am convienced about that.

Just don,t do it again. God bless you.
Comment by Temitayo Oyedemi on July 21, 2009 at 11:10am
I will like to use this medium to say that, if you have experienced any of the following: condom burst or slipped, raped or needle pricked, there is a solution. Post Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) is a drug given for such cases immediately after the incident. But this is meant to be administered to the person within 72 hours. It will be Preferable that the drug is administered early enough so as to prevent the virus (HIV) from attaching to a person's blood stream.

Kindly note that PEP is administered only at HIV Treatment centers spread across the nation. To access information on an HIV treatment center closest to you, visit www.pata-nigeria.com.

Unfortunately, in your case it is too late to take PEP. So, I will advise you to go and get tested. The earlier the better and PLEASE FOR NOW, DO NO'T HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH YOUR WIFE.
Comment by munachiso chinke nathaniel on July 20, 2009 at 6:43pm
wat u did is wrong but u have to go for a test
Comment by cejib on July 20, 2009 at 5:57pm
worry not God is in control of your situation. but why u listen to u friends, for bible say dont associate with them in the World, see now, quickly go for HIV test, and keep faith with God you will be aright.
Comment by oluwabusayo elizabeth ogunwemimo on July 19, 2009 at 10:16am
my candid advice 2 u is 2 plz go 4 a test,just try and gather d boldness and confidence.plz dats d best step ok
Comment by prince upama on July 18, 2009 at 8:34am
i its a normal thing in nigeria aids is not a new thing, eat well & drink well u will live longer than those that dont hv aids.
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