akeem's real name is with held .
I am a 34 year old hapily married man with a fantastic wife and 2 kids.
My wife is the greatest, but last night I got tempted into going to a brothel to see what it's like after many of my friends told me that as long as you wear a condom you wont get hiv .
My firends normally call me woman wrapper and We went out clubbing one night i normally go out with my wife but this time she went for one owambe party/
I ended up going with this nice girl and she gave oral sex (unprotected) and then we had full sex. i was quite drunk too.
However the condom broke, I realised this after about 30 seconds and tried to withdraw but she held me back until ejaculation. She got a new condom, I put it on and then I finished.
She says that she has an AIDS test every 3 months and she has not had a test in 4months and must have had sex with over 60 men including students. But I was not sure until A friend of mine got tested positive recently and he flew out of the country for treatment. Rumours are he has slept with all the girls we had met at the party we went .All from Lasu (Lagos state university.) All the guys in my click have run tio take tests but no one is saying anything !
I am a very sad man, I do not understand why I did it and I WISH I could turn back the clock. I am sorry for myself today. I feel guilty as sin and pray to be forgiven.
What are my chances? I want to tell my wife to protect her but she may leave me and if not probably NEVER forgive and trust me again.
We have sex quite regular (without protection) and will know something is wrong if I don't want sex. I really do love her very much. I will NEVER ever do this again! What do I do?
it has been like 2months since and i am afraid to take a test !
Please help this foolish foolish man.