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God says she is not mine

Posted by cozzy webtatafo on April 8, 2011 at 9:37pm
I am in my early 30s and really want to settle down soon. I am currently dating my first and only girlfriend and we have been dating for the past four years. Our parents on both sides are aware of the relationship and I have a good relationship with the girl’s parents and siblings. We love each other and it is a known secret that we are headed for the altar. However, about a year ago, in church during a ministration, I was told that my girlfriend is not meant for me. At first I ignored it, but few months back, the same advice was repeated again and this time it sounded more like a warning. I believe in God but I’m not sure of what is happening. How do I just walk away without this feeling of guilt? This is heart-breaking. What would be my excuse for abandoning the relationship without making her feel used and dumped ? This would hurt badly. What do I do?

CG

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