Gossip: Never believe in Gossip. Gossip can be a vicious thing; it might have a bit of truth in it, but it can destroy relationships, even if you do not believe in it. Get to know a person for yourself. * People make mistakes in life and they have a right to learn from their mistakes and never make them again. It is their mistake and they shouldn't have to pay for it for their entire life. That's why pencils have erasers. * God has the only right to judge, for you may not have all the information and what happened to them is not what happened to you. Who are you to judge? * There are no stupid questions. * Innocence is a gift that others should not destroy with their jadedness. * The best kind of control in the world is self control.