I'm going to tell you the truth aboutwhy some men cheat in relationship and you are going to be surprisedto hear that SEX IS NOT THE MAIN REASON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH? yes! youread it right! SEX IS NOT THE MAIN REASON! many people think thatmen cheats because of their lack of sex, well some of them do it forthat reason but of Psychologist M. Gary Neuman wrote a book call “Thetruth about cheating: why men stray in relationships and what to doto prevent it” which tell those reason. He discovered that mencheat in relationships because of the lack of emotional connection!(sounds like if we were talking about women right?) Let me tell yousomething: The fact that men cheat IS NOT JUSTIFY for any reason thatcauses his action! For example, what the doctor Neuman mean byemotional connection is that the man doesn't feel what he use to feelwith his wife, why do is that? well, the woman has to do with thistoo. Men do everything they can to do well and be winners, theythink that winning is the only way to feel like a man since theywere little.(Is a stupid thing for us, Women! but it makes sense forthem.) Women may push theirs parters to the arms of another woman byfocusing in the things men don't do instead in what they do! This isvery important, women sometimes are criticizing them. There isnothing men can do to satisfy women most of the time. This is anexample that is in the book, It was George's wife birthday, he wakeup very early to make breakfast for his wife before she wakes up togive her a nice surprise. He wanted to do his favorite meal but theirchildren's wanted to to pop corns! He accedes do pop corn and placedthem in the microwave but he put more than 4 minutes in themicrowave!, and obviously the pop corn get burn and a nasty odor cameout from the kitchen. Sarah (George's wife) wake up instantaneouslyand start screaming to George and telling him what the hell has hedone not taking in count his intentions! ( women , don't we said theintentions are what really count? well if you are like Sarah then YOUARE A COMLETLY LIER!) she should focus in his intentions to give hera nice surprise for her birthday! ATLEAST HE TRIED! and what hegains? a rude and crazy women that doesn't APPRECIATE WHAT HE HASDONE! this is a turn off for men. They need to be appreciated inorder to feel complete as we, women want that too is in it? well inorder to have what you want you have to give first. and the mainthing we should do is to appreciate little things to make the otherhappy ! doesn't this makes sense? As i said before, CHEATING ISBAAAAAAAAAAAAAAADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD! but we are the oneswho perhaps create it,. SO HAVE IN MIND THAT IN ORDER TO HAVE YOU MANWITH YOU, YOU HAVE TO APPRESIATE HIM, SHOW HIM YOU LOVE BUT NOT IN ANEXESIVE WAY BUT OFTEN IF YOU WANT HIM TO DO THE SAME FOR YOU, IF YOUAPPRECIATE THE LIITTLE DETAILS HE DOES YOU ARE MAKING HIM WANT TO DOMORE AND MORE, PLEASE DONT LACK HIS WISH OF BE NICE AND MAKE YOU FEELGOOD! APRECIATE HIM AND HE WILL DO IT MORE AND MORE. DONT MAKE DRAMASAND ACT AS AN ADULT , KEEP IN MIND THAT IN A RELATIONSHIP BOTH NED TOHAVE THEIR OWN TIME ALONE AND WITH FRIENDS IS NOT QUANTITY ISQUALITY!!!!!!!!!!!! IF HE HAS A FRIEND YOU DONT LIKE WELL STAY CLOSEAND DONT SCREAM TO YOUR PARTER COMPLAINING WITH HIM ABOUT HIS FRIENDBECAUSE WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS LACLKING HIM TO TELL YOU WHAT HE DOESWHEN HE IS WITH HIM TO NOT CREATE FIGHTS WITH YOU BECAUSE OF THATSILLY THING! , INSTEAD OF THAT, STAY CLOSE AND TRY TO KNOW THATFRIEND, MAYBE YOU LL LIKE HIM. IF YOU MAN IS A SPORT FANATIC BUT YOUDONT, PLEASE TRY TO KNOW WHY HE LIKE IT SO MUCH! WHY HE HAS THATPASSION! IF YOU DO THAT YOU 2 LL BECOME MORE CLOSE AND WILL ENJOY TOTALK ABOUT IT, IF YOU DONT AND AVOID HIS CONVERSATION ABOUT IF, WHATYOU ARE DOING IS TO PUSH HIM AWAYS AND HE WILL TALK ABOUT HIS PASSIONWITH SOMEONE WHO SHARES IT! MAYBE HE WILL MEET A WOMEN IN THE STADIUMTHAT LIKES HIS FAVORITE SPORT AS MUCH AS HE DOES AND WITH THE TIMEBECAUSE THEY WILL GET CLOSER BECAUSE OF THAT HE MAY BE FALL IN LOVEWITH HER BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT SHARING THE SAME INTERESES AS HE! IM NOTSAYING GO AND BE A CRAZY LUNATIC OR THAT BOTH MUST HAVE EVERYTHINGIN COMMON! WHAT IM SAYING IS THAT IN A RELATIONSHIP WHAT MUST WEIGHTTHE MOST IS POSITIVE THINGS AND WHAT YOU 2 HAVE IN COMMON! WHILE ISMORE THINGS IS BETTER THE BOND WITH YOUR PARTNER. WELL THAT THE MAINREASON AND WHAT YOU CAN DO TO PREVENT IT. IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU READPLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT AT LEAST. I HOPE YOU ENJOY READING IT ANDTHINK IN ALL THIS STUFF. A RELATIONSHIP IS MADE OF 2 NOT ONLY ONE,BUT APRESIATION IS NEEDED!!!!! PLEASE APPRESIATE YOU MAN AND GUYS DOTHE SAMETHING WITH YOU GIRLS BECAUSE THIS STUFF APPLY WITH WOMENTOO. THERE ARE ALOT OF MEN WHO ARE FAITHFULL AND BELIEVE ME THEY WORTH IT. I KNOW THAT THERE ARE MEN WHO JUCT CHEAT FOR SEX BUT THOSE WHO DO IT FOR THIS REASONS WILL END UP LONELY AND REJECTING FOR THEIR ACTIONS, GIRLS WE HVAE TO BE AWARE OK? DONT LET ANYONE HURT U AND DO THE BEST U CAN IN UR RELATIONSHIP SO IF UR BOYFRIEND CHEAT ON U AT LEAST IS NOT UR FALL 4 SURELast edited by PyLy on Sat Feb 07, 2009 10:43 am, edited 3 times in total.
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