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Wife Battering is Lose of Interest.

Posted by kalu on October 21, 2009 at 11:52am
It’s well known that, a loving and caring couple will always respect and cherish each other. There can never be a room for snapping, let alone fight .The question is what’s on the mind of a man who uses fist to settle differences with his wife at the slightest provocation. Could it be that he is fade up with the marriage? A lot of articles, seminars, and marriage counselors have concluded that the lust for the forbidden fruit is always instrumental to the cause of such demeaning thing.Whatever is the cause, physical attack has never made any wife more loving or caring. You can’t tear a wife to pieces and expect her to meet your emotional needs. It will be better for couples to avoid the worn-out accusation and complaints that trigger off crisis.But the irony of the situation is most wives would never admit that they have been battered. Even with bodily harm. And, these remains me of the popular adage that says;”Marital problems are best resolved in bed”. This means couple can resolve battering case without legal action. Many wife- battering cases have come and disappeared without the intervention of the third party. Many people who have intervened in such cases are perceived as enemies when the case is finally resolved.Before a husband starts to physically attack his wife or commit any other “marital blunder”, something fundamental has changed in the marriage. When the partners were in their rosy days; they displayed love in public, because they have something unique which they must show to the world that they are romantically bonded. And, those proof quickly disappear during wife battering.That feeling that pushes a man to fight is accumulated anger which he ignored or buried alive in his subconscious. It’s not always noticeable. But can always turn out to become grudges and hatred towards the wife if unexpressed.One top of that, we are in a society where men are regarded as “Mr. Right”. Even most parents displayed it the family circle. So, their children grow up with the unrealistic ideas and practice it in marriage. They simply believe that being severe to their wives is aimed at producing a well-disciplined wife. And justify their rage emotional bursts in the name of wife- battering. When the outburst finally becomes the pattern of parental conduct, their children –especially the male ones may copy it and go along with it for the rest of their life.SOURCE http://luvisgrate.blogspot.com
Tags: Abuse, Communication, Dating, Emotional, Healthy, Love, Romance, counseling
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