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But for the delay and bureaucratic bottlenecks of the South Africa Embassy in Lagos, Nollywood stars, Rita Dominic and Ini Edo would have been returning from Madiba’s country. 
South Africa, which is fast becoming notorious for its visas, was said to have delayed processing of visas for the stars until last minutes despite pleas that they were heading for the country to attend the World Economic Forum, which Oando sponsored and Managing Director of Mnet, Biola Alabi, was the moderator. 

The actresses alongside Desmond Elliot were billed to attend the Economic Forum, but only Desmond made it because he already had a visa. Rita and Ini waited almost in vain, but got their passports back on Wednesday, same day the Nollywood Night of the World Economic Forum was to hold, and by then it was too late as there was no fligh to Johannesburg. Thus, the two Nollywood stars missed the event.
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2 Children found dead in mother’s freezer 
 
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Ever since movie star actress Genevieve Nnaji made an entrance into the Nollywoodscene, she has successfully managed to keep her private life in the dark.

Well, just a few hours ago, a picture of Genevieve and a young lady who bears a striking resemblance with the actress popped up on Social Networking site Twitter. Many claim that the unknown lady is Genny’s daughter which she had over a decade and a half years ago.

By mere looking at the photo above, you can make the assertions yourself…

The identity of the girl’s father remains unknown as Ms Nnaji has successfully kept that part of her life private desipte years of media intrusion. Photo below right 


  
She did not have the so-called ‘normal’ childhood. Her teenage life12166309467?profile=original was truncated. She became pregnant at 17. Much was not expected from the little girl who did not follow the ‘golden rule’ of right upbringing (from secondary school, university and to career), however, against all odds, Genevieve Nnaji has broken, recreated and became the rule for many and is now a success story.
In an interview she granted Treasure Magazine, Genevieve shared the story of her life. The Mbaise, Imo State-born actress didn’t grow up in the East. She is what you call the typical Lagos girl. Speaking on her childhood, she said: “I grew up in Lagos basically; my family is here in Lagos. I went to Methodist Girls High School, Yaba, Lagos. My mum is a teacher and my dad is a retired banker. Okay, I’m from a family of 10, eight kids, mummy and daddy. I left school in 97, went to UNILAG to do Creative Arts (part time); it was difficult keeping up because of doing movies, so I decided to drop and continue with the movie until I’m ready.”


That is not all, she grew up with strong Catholic background, a church she claimed impacted conscience into her, and it was that conscience the made her take a stand against abortion when she became pregnant as a teenager. Speaking on her child and pregnancy, she said: “Yes, I have a child. I was pretty young though. What happened? What I learnt was that no matter how much I try to control myself and be preserved and everything, sh*t still happens to me. So, I think what is meant to be will be.


You can only try to avoid it or prolong it, but it will be. The truth is, if it hadn’t happened I won’t be here now, because it had a way of shifting my life. So, it is like falling to one side and trying to make the best out of it. I probably would not be here. It happened and the best I did was not to dwell on it. It affected me in a way, but I didn’t dwell on it. I just felt it was not about the downfall, but how to pick up yourself that makes you a strong person, and not everybody would understand. And there is this thing I keep telling myself; life is once. So, life starts and ends with you. You live once, try to make the best of it. Don’t let people discourage you, people are going to talk, they are going to judge, but truth is, people who talk the most are those who do the worse. If you are not important, people won’t talk about you. Be yourself, be happy.”


The pregnancy was seven months gone before Genny’s Catholic mum discovered it. Genny said, “She couldn’t believe it, ‘how can she be pregnant when she was very careful’.” A test confirmed it, her parents were disappointed but stood their ground against abortion. “I didn’t feel anything. I didn’t even know till I was about four months. It was there, but I was still in shock. I didn’t believe it. The only time I actually believed it was when I saw it in a scan. Seven months! And I saw it’s in there and I said, “Okay, it’s true!” I was like, “Oh, it’s like some disease....” I think I was pretty much hard on myself then than my parents or people. I was harder on myself, really. My parents reacted the way any parent would react – disappointed. I didn’t know. My mother discovered it for me. I didn’t know anything really. She discovered it for me and it was too late, we couldn’t do anything and we’re Catholics and I’m glad I didn’t do anything funny really.”


Speaking further, she said: “Getting rid of the pregnancy was an alternative then, but it was too late, because not until I was four months before we discovered it and so it was not what we could do, and my dad was like, ‘it’s a child for Christ’s sake. God knows why he wants to bring that child into life”. We are Catholics and it’s just that conscience, you do wrong once and doing another would not make the first right. So, you either correct your mistake by doing the right thing. If I was pregnant, and then have an abortion, it would have been like murder after fornication! So, that was basically wrong.


“I’m sure everywoman knows the feeling of pregnancy, but for the young girl – it is difficult for me to say now, because I have grown much older – but I know at that time it was, let me see... Anyway, I’d just wake up every morning hoping to wake up from a dream... but you know it doesn’t happen so. It’s more like giving me hope that ‘no, it wasn’t...’ I was like looking forward to sleeping and waking up, then it wasn’t getting any better anyway.”


Were her parents at fault? No, Genny took responsibility, “Mine had nothing to do with it, it was a different case entirely, which I wouldn’t want to go into. My parents did their jobs and I did my own job of listening and everything. My parents were fantastic. I got the best of home training. It’s none of my parents’ fault. I was close to mum and Dad and they told me everything I needed to know, okay. But what happened had to happen, somehow. So, I didn’t think it had to do with my parents, although some people could suffer from not getting enough education from their parents, but I think my mum did her part as a mother. Yes, she did.”


On the lesson life taught her, she said: “Like I said before, I have learnt that life is the way you live it. It is not about theory, no lecturer can tell you what life is. Life is what you make of it. Life is what you want it to be, basically. For somebody like me, if I say I want this now and I work towards it, nothing is going to keep me away from that, I’m going to get it. Even if it means me drawing up my account, I want that, and I’m happy. I always think of today and not tomorrow. It is not like, ‘Oh, my children in the future...’ whatever I do right now, I believe I’ll dig into it. Yes, I will try to be considerate later... but life is too short, you go now and whatever you’ve achieved other people will enjoy it.


“I think it is doing what you love doing, that’s what life is basically all about. Be happy; whatever you do let it be worth doing well. Don’t do things because other people expect you to do it. Please yourself, but don’t be selfish about it. You know it’s not like when you enjoy killing; that’s not what I mean. Whatever your direction, if your father wants you to be a doctor and you want to be a musician, follow your dreams! At the end of the day, if you have a gift for it... (go for it).”


All in all, Genny has come of age and done well for herself. She is a role model, not just to teeming aspiring actresses but to those who had a truncated/pause in the journey of their dreams, but are trying to pick up the pieces. And as icing on the cake, the beautiful actress is on the verge of inking a document that would see her pair with a Hollywood star in a multi-million naira movie. Happy birthday to Africa’s queen of the tube!e has risen to become one of the very few iconic movie figures in Africa. Cable News Network (CNN) even dubbed her Julia Roberts of Africa.
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images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR6RYROSCbFiiADixrbVGFJtFc8nk1uwLoqxT8WPpLOIbqNdQFMjEwgqD4t Some women's sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat's reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. advertisement The only way she could have men interested in her was to spread her thighs at the drop of a hat! "Even as a teenager, boys never asked me out – or even talked to me.

I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I'd been so easy with the man next door who furtively asked me to get him a bottle of soft drink. "When I took the drink to him, he asked me in and quickly shut the door. He simply took me to the bedroom, groped me and we had sex. All along, I thought that if I offered him sex, he would be my boyfriend. After we had sex, he didn't even look at me as he hussled me out of the house.

Then there was the secondary school teacher who often had sex with me in the classroom. The more sex I had, the more dejected I felt. Why was I doing it? Because I felt that sex was the most my flabby body could offer a man. It was sordid and degrading but I was desperate. Inevitably, I got pregnant at 19. The father, a 23 year old articled clerk hung around for a while then found another girl when our son was four months old. "In spite of that, my need for sex never went away. When I met Sesan, the man I eventually married, it was because he said he preferred his women fat and was in love with me.

Did I love him? Who knows? He loved me, that's what mattered. I was happy with him for a while, especially since he was a good father to my son. But I got a job as a junior clerk in a big firm and a whole shop of men became opened to me. The supervisor was the first. After office hours, with my bottom pressed against the cold filing cabinets, I let him have sex with me. and he was always grateful – letting me off early and writing glowing appraisals but I felt guilty for betraying my husband. But my guilt wasn't strong enough to stop me. "At the firm's end-of-year party, one of the young officers danced with me as he inched me towards the toilets. I was very tipsy as he clamped his lips on mine, tongue rammed down my throat. I flirted back by parting my thighs. One of his hands started fumbling with my skirt and the other with his flies. Then we were having sex, right there, as members of staff danced on the floor! Months later, I found out I was pregnant. I was in a panic. My husband and I hadn't made love in months.

So that night,' I seduced him. Then, a few weeks later, I broke the news that we were having a baby. He'd often hinted he would love us to have a baby as soon as possible. "Adoring, gullible man, he swallowed it! "'But he soon realized he was not the father when our daughter was born. She didn't look like either of us. I would have gotten away with it but for my reputation. He had a show-down with me and I confessed. He beat the day light out of me, but I took it as the punishment I deserved. He then threw me out of our flat. After I found a room I could afford, I continued with my escapades. I was still fat, a mother of two without any partner helping, I relied heavily on -gifts from my men. Most of the time, sex was in their cars or in grubby toilets in night clubs.

Once in a while, I even brought them to my pocky room. As the number of men I'd slept with grew, I became really depressed. What kind of woman was I? How could I produce something as beautiful as my children when I led such a sordid life. "It was at this juncture that I decided to turn my life around. I gave my life a long once-over and I decided I needed to lose weight first. It wasn't easy but I kept at it. I joined an exercise class in a stadium close to the house and was happy when the weights fell off. With the money I still had stashed away, I went to a computer class and got a good job as a receptionist.

"To celebrate, I combed all the 'bend – down' boutiques I knew and 'got myself very .. flattering clothes. So when men started complimenting my new look, I didn't think they were laughing at the flabby me, my confidence was enjoying a great boost. But best of all, I didn't have that craving for sex, that need to degrade myself for the thrills of getting a man. I learnt if a man admired me, I didn't need to give him anything in return – just my buddy personality. "By the time I met my current husband, I was a different woman entirely. He was a widower and he knew of my two children. And for the first time in my life, I didn't spread my legs to keep him. We started meeting as just friends as I realized my bed hopping days were over. I'd transformed -myself, weaned myself off sordid, meaningless sex and discovered the person I wanted to be.

 

I didn't need men to love me. now that I was slimmer, I could love myself. "When my ex-husband learnt of the new one, he was very bitter and accused me of using him. I had to explain to him the demon I was living with, that I could scarcely be called a wife when I was married to him. I apologized for hurting him but I had to move on. Thank God my second marriage is all I'd prayed for and more. We live in a decent flat with my two children and the two others I had with my husband. I'm certainly not proud of my past. There are days when I think back to the person I was, those awful encounters with these faceless men, and the tears flow. But for the sake of my kids, husband – and most of all me, I'm going to keep looking to the future. I'm making the most of every second of my new life ….. "

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Boko Haram rejects Amnesty

The members of the Yusufiyya sect popularly known as Boko Haram said that they will not accept the amnesty, which the Governor Elect Alhaji Kashim Shettima promised to offer them.

The spokesman of the sect who gave his name as Abu Dardam in a BBC Hausa programme monitored in Maiduguri, stressed that their reason of not accepting the amnesty is that they don’t recognise democracy as a form of  government.

The group also faulted the constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, saying that justice can only be found in the Holy Quran, that is Shariya system of government.

Reacting the Borno state Commissioner of Home Affairs Information and Culture Mr. Hyeladi Inuwa Bwala, appealed to the group to see reason and embrace dialogue with a view to restore lasting peace in Borno state.

He said most wars and crisis in the world were settled mostly through dialogue, and therefore called on the group to see wisdom in the amnesty offer and come to  a round table for dialogue.
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TWO children of a woman (names withheld), working at the Central Hospital Agbor, in Delta State have been found dead in their mother’s giant deep freezer.

The names of the children were given as Harrison and Favour. Favour was a five year old girl and Harrisson , a 7 year old boy who were pupils of Community Day Care/Primary School Agbor.

Vanguard gathered that their mother had allegedly locked up the kids in her one-bedroom apartment and went to the market only to return and found the kids stone dead in the freezer.

The woman who is said to be a single parent is alleging a foul play, noting that blood was reportedly found trickling from both the mouth and nose of the children.

According to her “when I returned from the slaughter, I went straight to where I kept the key but to my greatest surprise, the key was no where to be found”.

State Police Public Relations Officer, PPRO, Charles Muka told Vanguard, Sunday, that “we (police) are investigating. No arrest has been made; the woman locked the kids inside(her apartment) and took the keys away”
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Google’s Android now holds more than a third of the U.S. smartphone market share, eclipsing both RIM’s BlackBerry OS and Apple’s iOS with a growing lead, comScore reports.

Measuring more than 30,000 U.S. mobile subscribers through its MobiLens service from December 2010 to March 2011, ComScorefound that Android now holds 34.7% — a solid increase from 31.2% in January, which was when Android jumped ahead of RIM as the top smartphone platform in the U.S. for the first time.

Apple held its own, growing from 25% in December 2010 to 25.5% in March 2011. It seems most of Android’s growth was at the expense of RIM, which dropped from 31.6% to 27.1% in that same period.

 

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Microsoft and Palm, which hold the fourth and the fifth place on the list, also lost a fair share of subscribers, dropping to 7.5% and 2.8%, respectively.

On the mobile equipment manufacturer front, very little has changed. Motorola dropped from 16.7% to 15.8% from December 2010 to March 2011, and the only company that experienced significant growth in this period was Apple, which grew from 6.8% to 7.9%, largely due to the iPhone launching on Verizon in February.

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capt.42680fa1d1764993b96454b9434312a4-42680fa1d1764993b96454b9434312a4-0.jpg?x=213&y=178&xc=1&yc=1&wc=409&hc=342&q=85&sig=PdTmzkngcDHs8UdlC8JMJg--LOS ANGELES – Former California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and his wife of 25 years, Maria Shriver, announced Monday that they are separating.

The statement, issued by a spokesman for Schwarzenegger, said the two were working on the future of their relationship while living apart and would continue to parent their four children together.

"This has been a time of great personal and professional transition for each of us," the two said in a prepared statement. "After a great deal of thought, reflection, discussion, and prayer, we came to this decision together."

It was not clear from the statement if either remained at their estate in Brentwood, or who the children were with. Schwarzenegger's spokesman, Daniel Ketchell, said he wouldn't answer questions beyond what was said in Monday's statement.

Schwarzenegger, a Republican, finished his seven-year run as governor in January and has been traveling to deliver speeches and pursuing entertainment projects. He tweeted frequently during his travels to such faraway places as Brazil, Nigeria and France.

Shriver was not mentioned in his Twitter updates from the road.

Shriver, also active on social networks, posted three updates on her Twitter page on the day of their 25th wedding anniversary on April 26, but did not mention the milestone.

About a month before the wedding anniversary, Shriver wrote on her Facebook page that she was going through a transition in her life.

"As you know, transitions are not easy. I'd love to get your advice on how you've handled transitions in your own life," she wrote.

During Schwarzenegger's time as governor, Shriver and the couple's children never moved to Sacramento, preferring their secluded canyon estate a few miles from the Pacific Ocean. Schwarzenegger never settled in Sacramento, choosing instead to commute by private jet between his home and the state capitol.

Shriver, a member of the Kennedy political dynasty and the daughter of the late Eunice Kennedy Shriver, left her job as an NBC News correspondent after Schwarzenegger took office.

As the state's first lady, she ran an annual women's conference that attracted a long list of business, political and entertainment luminaries, along with an audience of thousands. She also was credited with overhauling the California Museum in downtown Sacramento and, with Schwarzenegger, starting the California Hall of Fame.

The separation announcement comes months after the death of Shriver's father, Peace Corps founder and former vice presidential candidate Sargent Shriver, in January.

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Man commits suicide over HIV status

jpeg&STREAMOID=2hL8$Nr1s7o2NPs2PEteES6SYeqqxXXqBcOgKOfTXxTUuwVw5uR2x4a0_BzbqD7PnW_PgxgftuECOcfJwS6Jtlp$r8Fy$6AAZ9zyPuHJ25T7a9GKDSxsGxtpmxP0VAUyHL6IDcZHtmM2t7xO$FHdJG95dFi6y2Uma3vSsvPpVyo-&width=234A 29-year-old man has allegedly committed suicide after medical results revealed that he was HIV/AIDS positive.

 

The incident which occurred at Sangere village in Girei Local Government Area of Adamawa State took place in the house of the deceased, Emmanuel Peter.

The discovery of the death resulted in panic as residents trooped out to the scene where the corpse of the deceased was found suspended from the ceiling.

Though the deceased left no written note to say why he decided to take his life, family members suspected his suicide was as a result of the discovery of his HIV/AIDS status.

A relative of the deceased who identified herself as Magdalene Peter said the deceased had battled with a protracted illness before the medical report over the weekend confirmed his HIV/AIDS status. Musa Morris, a resident who spoke to NEXT after the police removed the corpse from the scene at about 7:45am yesterday morning, said the deceased must have contemplated his suicide well in advance. "We suspect he unsuccessfully attempted to terminate his life through the consumption of the dark powdery content of many of the broken batteries seen among his clothing's before his recourse to a much faster death this morning (yesterday) by hanging," Mr Musa said.

Poor health system

The chairperson of People Living with HIV/AIDS in the state, Fara James described the development as strange, saying it was quite a long time it had report of such occurrence. She, however, regretted that there was the possibility of such occurrence where pre-test and post-test counselling was not effectively done. "There must have been poor counselling somewhere," she said.

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capt.8dea4b5833bb49c4a7ab276280efab26-8dea4b5833bb49c4a7ab276280efab26-0.jpg?x=213&y=141&xc=2&yc=1&wc=408&hc=270&q=85&sig=5khb_0BGFxeHs29lPhn.4w--&width=213BOSTON – The nation's first full face transplant recipient said the first thing his young daughter told him when she saw him after the operation was "Daddy, you're so handsome."

Dallas Wiens, sporting a goatee and dark sunglasses, joined surgeons Monday at Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston in his first public appearance since the 15-hour procedure in March.

"It feels natural," said the 25-year-old Fort Worth, Texas, man, who received a new nose, lips, skin, muscle and nerves from an anonymous donor. The operation was paid for by the U.S. military, which hopes to use findings from the procedure to help soldiers with severe facial wounds.

Wiens' features were all but burned away and he was left blind after hitting a power line while painting a church in November 2008.

On Monday, Wiens appeared before a packed room of reporters and photographers with a new, somewhat swollen face and a new head of hair.capt.13cbaa5aba5f40ed8086b7fda1835273-13cbaa5aba5f40ed8086b7fda1835273-0.jpg?x=247&y=345&q=85&sig=3t2uzjIok1YHYulT3GnSNA--capt.009ed3f72aaf4d0a9934b05b1404cf9e-009ed3f72aaf4d0a9934b05b1404cf9e-0.jpg?x=400&y=253&q=85&sig=bjiY2FdHZs6Eo6W8EwwK7Q--&width=399

"I adapted to it very quickly," Wiens told reporters. "As time went on ... I was able to smell again and breathe through my nose. Every step of the way was amazing."

The first thing Wiens' nose was able to detect after months of having no smell? Hospital lasagna.

"You wouldn't imagine it, but it smelled delicious," Wiens said.

Surgeons said the transplant was not able to restore his sight, and some nerves were so badly damaged from his injury that he will probably have only partial sensation on his left cheek and the left side of his forehead.

Plastic surgeon Bohdan Pomahac, who performed the operation on Wiens, said the transplant's results were better than he expected.

"The most fun part is to see the next six to nine months when the function will start to come back and when Dallas will start to feel a light touch on his face," Pomahac said. "To me, that's really exciting."

In an Associated Press story and a YouTube video last fall, Wiens spoke poignantly about why he wanted a transplant and how he wanted to smile again and feel kisses from his 4-year-old daughter, Scarlette. Face transplants give horribly disfigured people hope of an option other than "looking in the mirror and hating what they see," he said.

He told the AP that his daughter and his faith have kept him motivated. He repeated that Monday. "Even though I'm in amazing hands here," Wiens said, "I'm also in God's hands."

The surgery was paid for by the Department of Defense, which gave the hospital a $3.4 million research grant for five transplants.

About a dozen face transplants have been done worldwide, in the U.S., France, Spain and China.

 

 

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 capt.photo_1304982571233-1-0.jpg?x=213&y=136&xc=1&yc=1&wc=409&hc=261&q=85&sig=4QUQk1crQXQd6gXPbhPhRg--A California woman kidnapped as a schoolgirl and repeatedly raped while held captive for 18 years is to tell her story in a book, her publisher said.

"A Stolen Life" will recount the ordeal of Jaycee Dugard, who bore two children by convicted rapist Phillip Garrido after he and his wife Nancy seized her aged 11 in 1991.

Dugard, who is now 31, "tells the full story of her ordeal in the book," said Simon and Schuster.

"She opens up about what she experienced, including how she feels now since she was found," the publishing house said.

An audio version of the "stark, compelling" story, read unabridged by Dugard herself, will also be released, said the publisher, in a statement forwarded by her California-based spokeswoman.

The announcement came a week and a half after both the Garridos pleaded guilty to kidnapping Dugard and raping her repeatedly, in plea bargains liked to see them jailed for life.

Dugard reacted to those guilty pleas by saying: "I'm relieved that Phillip and Nancy Garrido have finally acknowledged their guilt and confessed to their crimes against me and my family."

Garrido was accused of kidnapping Dugard outside her home in South Lake Tahoe, California in 1991, just three years after he was released from prison, where he served only 11 years of a 50-year sentence for a rape.

Dugard was found alive nearly two years ago in the secret backyard compound of Garrido's home in Antioch, east of San Francisco, where he had imprisoned her.

The Garridos were indicted last year on 18 charges including kidnap and rape, and had been expected to go on trial this summer.

143*121c,http%3A%2F%2Fd.yimg.com%2Fa%2Fp%2Frids%2F20110428%2Fl%2Fr3535552221.jpgBut late last month Phillip Garrido, 60, pleaded guilty to counts including kidnap, rape and forcible lewd acts, while Nancy Garrido, 55, pleaded guilty to kidnap and rape.

They will be sentenced on June 2, but under plea bargains agreed by them both he is expected to be jailed for 431 life -- effectively life behind bars -- while Nancy Garrido will jailed for between 36 years and life.

The state of California, intensely criticized for not catching on to Garrido's scheme, has paid Dugard $20 million in compensation for her suffering.

Since being freed, Dugard has been living at a secret location with her family including her two daughters by Garrido, now 13 and 16.

 

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TUESDAY, May 3 (HealthDay News) 

images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS6PyfS_QHIpnOKxmVjX9-TyLoHYFH3VxX_3tDbncFZ08vUtLUWiADuke University researchers studied 91 obese men and 134 obese women who completed a sexual functioning questionnaire before enrolling in a weight loss study. The questionnaire covered nine areas: interest, desire, arousal, orgasm, satisfaction, behavior, relationship, masturbation and sexual problems.

"We found that there was lower sexual satisfaction and lower sexual quality of life among women than men, and overall sexual quality of life was low among both groups," Dr. Truls Ostbye, a professor in the department of community and family medicine, said in a Duke news release.

The researchers also compared the obese patients' scores to the results from a group of cancer survivors and a general population group. Obese women's scores were lower than both those groups' scores, while obese men's scores were between the scores of the cancer survivors and the general population group.

"Our findings contribute to a growing body of research that indicates obesity is associated with reduced sexual functioning and sexual quality of life among both men and women," Ostbye said.

Doctors should be aware of this issue and invite obese patients to talk about it, the researchers said.

"Obese patients welcome the opportunity to discuss the effects of their weight on quality of life, including sexual quality of life," said study co-author and clinical psychologist Ronette L. Kolotkin. "Because so many obese individuals experience discrimination and prejudice, they appreciate providers who create a warm, supportive environment in which to discuss these sensitive issues."

The study appears in the May/June issue of the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy.

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Religious pages continue to take the top spots in our weekly ranking of the most engaging presences on Facebook, followed by music and sports.
 

Most Engaging Pages

Name Fans Interactions
1. Jesus Daily 5,034,761 2,127,067
2. The Bible 6,926,620 1,119,413
3. Justin Bieber 26,404,878 1,075,159
4. Lady Gaga 33,214,214 893,979
5. Manchester United 12,868,950 834,305
6. Real Madrid C.F. 12,774,646 822,342
7. Mario Teguh 3,939,097 775,420
8. FC Barcelona 13,912,175 771,775
9. Necip Fazil Kisakurek 920,057 529,674
10. Vin Diesel 22,758,954 464,003
11. The Twilight Saga 20,452,376 442,105
12. Avril Lavigne 18,372,875 422,470
13. We are Khaled Said 1,198,347 419,336
14. Jesus Christ 2,400,855 416,320
15. ILoveAllaah.com 5,432,763 373,575
16. Dios Es Bueno! 3,358,951 360,664
17. Lil Wayne 23,616,701 360,228
18. LA Lakers 7,941,899 333,084
19. NBA 8,435,891 332,770
20. Müzik Keyfi 1,364,733 332,641

 

Religion

Jesus Daily hangs on to number one for a second week in a row; the page totaled an additional 2,127,067 interactions. The Bible moves up this week as it rests just behind thanks to the voices of 1,119,413 engaged fans. The social networking home for Jesus Christ took a bit of a fall to the 14th spot this time around; 416,320 posts were added to the page since last Monday.

Also found in the back half of our list this week, ILoveAllaah.com comes in at 15th; 373,575 new thoughts were added to the conversation. Dios Es Bueno nips at its heals this week with 360,664 new comments added.

Music

Justin Bieber moves back a spot to third this week, but his official social networking hub continues to be filled with buzzing fans. Last week his page nabbed an interaction total of 1,075,159. Lady Gaga‘s concert recently aired on HBO helping the pop star move up to the third spot; 893,979 excited social networkers joined the chatter.

Avril Lavigne‘s new single, as well as pictures and texts from her current tour in Asia, helps her make a first appearance on our list securing the 12th position with a 422,470 seven day interaction total. New merchandise, updates from the road, and a new album on the way have the masses chatting about Lil Wayne; the rapper makes the cut this week as he comes in 17th with 360,228 new posts added to his page.

Sports

Manchester United had quite a match this past weekend, and leads the pack of sports pages this week with 834,305 diehard fans helping to secure the fifth spot for yet another week. Real Madrid C.F. nips at Manchester’s heals though; 822,342 football lovers routed for the team on Facebook. FC Barcelona falls to eighth this week; the team still had a notable week as it totaled 771,775 interactions.

The Mavericks may have sent the Lakers home this weekend, but the L.A. basketball team had the edge on Facebook with 333,084 fans cheering the team into the 18th spot. Playoff talk continues on the NBA‘s official page; 332,770 voices joined the conversation.

Global

Mario Teguh continues to sit pretty on our list as his page has consistently engaged likers for weeks; the Indonesian motivational speaker holds down the seventh position with an immense 775,420 fans posting on his page. We are Khaled Said takes a fall to thirteenth this week; 419,336 interactions were totaled on the page.

In Turkey, Necip Fazil Kisakurek‘s page takes two steps forward this week into the ninth spot; 529,674 new thoughts were added to the page. Müzik Keyfi takes a few steps back as it rounds out our list; 332,641 people contributed to the on-going talks on the page.

Movies

We close this week with a quick trip to Hollywood. Actor Vin Diesel‘s latest film Fast Five recently hit theaters; his page has skyrocketed to the center of our list with the help of 464,003 talkative Facebook users. TheTwilight Saga‘s page is filled with interactive updates about all the latest happenings surrounding the books and films; 442,105 fan comments helped the page land in the 11th spot this week.

Readers, did any pages or trends successfully catch your eye this week?

If you want to measure interactions on your own page and compare them to others, take a look at AllFacebook Stats, which allows you to track and compare your pages in different dimensions. The tool is available in a free version, along with multiple business packages.

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The Chief Justice of Nigeria, Aloysius Katsina-Alu, had a close shave with death last Saturday night, when a tree fell on his house as he and his wife were about retiring for the night. His wife, Victoria Mimi Katsina-Alu, was not as lucky as the tree fell on her, killing her.

 

A family member, Ajiryar Katsina-Alu, told journalists that the Katsina-Alus had sat outdoors following a late dinner and were about to go indoors when a rainstorm started.

"She stood up and told her husband that they should go indoors and was steps ahead when the wind uprooted one of the gmalina trees in the compound, which fell on her as she was about stepping into the house," he said.

According to Mr Katsina-Alu, the tree also brought down the branches of a nearby tree, which fell on and upturned the chair on which the chief justice was still sitting, pushing him to the ground.

While Justice Katsina-Alu sustained minor bruises, his wife, who would have turned 54 next month, was found unconscious and rushed to Myom Hospital in Gboko, where she was confirmed dead, the family member said.

Her body has since been deposited at the Gboko General Hospital mortuary.

Earlier on Saturday, Mrs Katsina-Alu had supervised the wedding of her niece, Erdoo Akaa and her husband Terseer Ado, at the Victory Saints Church in Alu village and was said to be in her element, attending to guests until late in the evening.

Sympathizers have thronged the Katsina-Alu country home in the Ushongo local government area of Benue State to commiserate with the chief justice.

Some of the early callers included George Akume, a former governor of the state; Steven Lawani, the deputy governor of the state; Iorhemen Hwande, the chief judge of Benue State; Margaret Igbetar, the president of the Customary Court of Appeal; Chive Kaave, the attorney general and justice commissioner, as well as Julius Shaukpar, the chairman of Ushongo local government council.

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Friends and family of Tayo Aderinokun, the managing director of GTBank plc today all over the world have come together in prayers for his quick recovery. A blackberry message in circulation states "dear friends, it is uncle t's birthday, let's ask God to give

him a healing birthday package today.

 

Please pass it on". It will be recalled that a few weeks back, aderinokun left the shores of Nigeria to attend to his health which had been a cause of concern for some time and a notice of medical leave was filed to the banks regulatory authorities and the media.

 

Also, the bank went ahead at its annual general meeting held in April to announce Mr Segun Agbaje as its acting Managing Director for the period he will be away. A family source confirmed to huhuonline that Mr Aderinokun is still alive contrary to recent speculations about his death and urges all well-meaning people to join in prayers for his recovery.

 

 

Although, it has not been affirmed yet by any concrete authority, there are indications that the managing director of one of the viable financial institutions in Africa, Guaranty Trust Bank (GTB), Tayo Aderinokun, has succumbed to death following news of his sliding into coma in a London hospital many months back.

Femi Adeniran, who is the Corporate Affairs manager of the bank, said three weeks ago during a phone interaction, that he would not directly speak on the issue but referred reporters to a Nigeria based financial newspaper for comprehensive details.

Aderinokun's long-term illness, his subsequent movement to a UK hospital and reported demise, we learnt, were a hush-hush subject in the public domain including among members of the bank's management. 

Since the report of his slipping into unconsciousness, the GTB's chains of command have reportedly been in turmoil, as top echelons of the bank became confused over who replaces Aderinokun, despite the fact that his supposed death was yet to be made public.

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12166310094?profile=originalSaheela Ibraheem, of Edison, N.J., is every college's dream. She plays soccer, softball, the trombone. She scored an almost perfect SAT. And she's a nice, humble, normal girl.

"I want to study neuroscience, neurobiology," Saheela said. "It comes down to the support I've had at home, from my parents and brother, every step of the way.

Saheela applied to 14 colleges. She got into Harvard, M.I.T., Princeton, Columbia, Penn, Stanford, Williams, Washington University, Brown, Cornell, University of Chicago, University of North Carolina, and Cal Tech. The only rejection was from Yale. No one is quite sure why.

"I don't know!" she said.

But what might be most amazing about Saheela -- she is 15.

"Most of the time, they say I'm mature for my age," Saheela said. "I guess that Age isn't everything."

Her mom knew Saheela was something special at an early age.

"When you teach her 1, 2, 3 but she want more," said Shakirat Ibraheem, the proud mother. "When you teach her 1 through 5, she'd say how about this."

Saheela skipped the sixth and ninth grades. By high school, she'd switched from public to private. Her Edison school feels lucky to have her.

"She has it all. She's the whole package," said Susan Swenson of the Wardlaw-Hartridge School. "She really is."

"I want to move with her. I want to go with her," Shakirat Ibraheem said.

For sure, she'll miss high school -- the friends, the sports, the prom.

"It's pretty much one of our last chances to be together as a class," she said. "I can't wait."

But it just takes a few seconds of meeting Saheela Ibraheem to know that is probably not the last time we'll hear her name.

"It's your life and it's important that you take advantage of it," Saheela said. "If it means going to college younger, that's just the way life is for you."

In case you're wondering: she decided to go to Harvard.

9545046-large.jpgSaheela also excels outside the classroom. She is a three-sport athlete, playing outfield for the school’s softball team, defender on the soccer team, and swimming relays and 50-meter races for the swim team. She also sings alto in the school choir, plays trombone in the school band and serves as president of the school’s investment club, which teaches students about the stock market by investing in virtual stocks.

 

 

Saheela joins a growing number of New Jersey students going to college before they are old enough to drive. Last year, Kyle Loh of Mendham graduated from Rutgers at 16. In previous years, a 14-year-old from Cranbury and two of his 15-year-old cousins also graduated from Rutgers.

For Saheela, her unusual path to college began when she was a sixth-grader at the Conackamack Middle School in Piscataway. Eager to learn more about her favorite subject, math, the daughter of Nigerian immigrants asked to move to a higher-level class. The school let her skip sixth grade entirely.

By high school, Saheela said, she was no longer feeling challenged by her public school classes. So, she moved to the Wardlaw-Hartridge School, a 420-student private school, where she skipped her freshman year and enrolled as a 10th-grader. Her three younger brothers, twins now in the ninth grade and a younger brother in second grade, all eventually joined her at the school.

School officials were impressed Saheela, one of their top students, didn’t spend all her time studying.

“She’s learned and she’s very smart. But she keeps pushing herself,” said William Jenkins, the Wardlaw-Hartridge School’s director of development.

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AY Live: The Invasion

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In the hall

Inside, the sold-out hall was so full that some guests had to stand, though this didn’t seem to stop them from having as much fun as the seated guests, who paid up to N300,000 for tickets at the VVIP tables. The First Lady of Lagos State, Abimbola Fashola, former Super Eagles captain, Austin Okocha, and a host of Nollywood stars and fellow comedians were in attendance at the show.

At about 7pm, ‘AY Live’ began with memorable performances by upcoming comedians, most of whom are past winners of the Ay Open Mic comedy competition. Established comedians, including Akpororo, Gboy, Ushbabee, Pencil, Whalemouth, Emeka Smith, MC Shakara, Elenu, Seyi Law, Helen Paul and Princess, also took the stage at different intervals, delivering top-notch, original jokes.

The show also featured a musical performance by former West African Idol contestant, Jodie, who is currently enjoying a renaissance of sorts with her new single ‘Kuchi Kuchi Baby’. Other musicians who graced the stage included YQ, Kas, Skuki, D’ Prince, Yemi Sax, Kaffy and a host of others. However, it was the appearance of Duncan Mighty that really got the crowd going. The Port Harcourt-based star, who rarely makes an appearance in Lagos, must have been surprised and overjoyed at the amount of love shown to him by the audience. Several guests were familiar with his songs and most jumped up from their seats to dance and sing along with the singer popularly known as “Port Harcourt’s first son.”

A visionary host

AY might not be the most talented or exciting personality in the art of comedy, but he makes up for his shortcomings with boundless class, vision and creativity. Apart from the high quality of the show, which was commended by the audience, his acts were works of genius. Though most of his previous comedy trailers and skits have become sensations on YouTube, the new ones unveiled at this year’s show were real beauties.

His entrance trailer stars AY as a white garment prophet who was kidnapped by Aki and Pawpaw, the diminutive Nollywood comedy actors. The trailer was infused in his performance when he tumbled onstage from a trailer scene and continued his performance from there. He reenacted his usual prophecy session in a lackluster manner, sparing the usual target of the now-popular joke, Sammie Okposo, this time around.

A fashion show featuring Uti Nwachukwu, Kenneth Okolie and others, who modeled pieces from Yomi Casual, took place before 9ice and Tuface came on stage towards the end of the show. 9ice gave an accomplished performance of some of his hit songs. He was joined by 2face on their duet, ‘Street Credibility’, before paving way for Tuface to take the proceedings to the riveting climax.

An afterparty followed at Jay Jay Okocha’s ‘10’ lounge.

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Here you will find 10 sayings of Jesus that I have collected together. Finding quotable passages from Jesus was not that easy, as most of what is recorded of what he said (in the gospel books: Matthew, Mark, Luke and John) are either metaphorical stories, or Jesus responding to particular questions that had been put to him. Neither work very well when taken out of context.

Of the more direct teachings of Jesus, most of them are contained in what is known as the sermon on the mount, which is a veritable goldmine of counter-cultural wisdom.

1. Love Your Enemies!

OK, you have to admit this is a pretty radical concept...

“You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? (Matthew 5:43-47 )

2. Don't Worry About The Future

Sometimes insightful sayings seem obvious once you hear them - I think that is the case here. Live in the moment you're in!

“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today. (Matthew 6:34)

3. How To Treat Others

“Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets. (Matthew 7:12)

4. The Most Important Commandment

“Teacher, which is the most important commandment in the law of Moses?”
Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.”(Matthew 22:36-40)

5. Spiritual Greatness

In the topsy-turvy world of the Kingdom of God it seems the usual understanding of things is reversed. Here is yet another example:

“You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:42-45)

6. Gaining The World, Losing Your Soul

Here Jesus highlights that the eternal and spiritual dimension is more important than the temporal physical one. Those who choose to follow His teaching will make physical sacrifices for spiritual rewards.

Then, calling the crowd to join his disciples, he said, “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must turn from your selfish ways, take up your cross, and follow me. If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it. And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul? Is anything worth more than your soul? If anyone is ashamed of me and my message in these adulterous and sinful days, the Son of Man will be ashamed of that person when he returns in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.” (Mark 8:34-38)

7. The Kingdom Of God Is Not Physical

Christian faith should not be militant, things like the crusades were not in line with what Jesus taught, or even the concept of christendom. He also taught that theKingdom of God was in the hearts of men.

The statement below was said in response to questioning in his trial before the roman govenor.

“My Kingdom is not an earthly kingdom. If it were, my followers would fight to keep me from being handed over to the Jewish leaders. But my Kingdom is not of this world.” (John 18:36)

8. God Loves Everyone

This very well known passage is actually a quote from Jesus.

“For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him.(John 3:16-17)

9. Ask, Seek, Knock

“And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. (Luke 11:9-10)

10. His Claim To Be God

While it seems Jesus didn't make a point of telling everyone that he was God, he did make it clear on a few recorded occasions. This quote is taken from Jesus' court trial, from which the resulting conviction of 'blasphemy' led to his crucifixion.

I include this quote, not because it's a great teaching, but because it affects how one perceives his teaching. It's hard to think of Jesus as [just] a good moral teacher when you know that he thought himself to be God. Either he is a weirdo, or he is God!

Then the high priest said to him, “I demand in the name of the living God—tell us if you are the Messiah, the Son of God.”
Jesus replied, “You have said it. And in the future you will see the Son of Man seated in the place of power at God’s right hand and coming on the clouds of heaven.” (Matthew 26:63-64)


 


Bible passages are quoted from the New Living Translation copyright 1996, 2004 by Tyndale Charitable Trust


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Ilorin’s queens of the night

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Sitting dejectedly, she was weeping profusely over a recent diagnosis of HIV/AIDS at the Ilorin Civil Servants Clinic. Patience agreed to talk to NEXT only after much persuasion. She described her life as a programme outside God’s purpose.

“Wetin come be my own? Plenty people wey I meet never get dat kind thing. I just dey here some time come get AIDS,” she said in pidgin English.

Patience’s friend, whom she identified as a Camerounian, had told her that the place (Ilorin) was the best for the business, as few people would ever suspect what was going on.

Just like the young woman from Benin, many other girls have left their homes to sojourn in Ilorin and ride the night for fun. Some of them are university students who have dropped out and are afraid to reveal their plight to their parents, thereby ending up in the trade due to peer influence.

The hots pots

Ariya and Alaafia Hotels on Coca-Cola Road are amongst so many other rendezvous in the state capital, where the rich and influential troop to pick them up, and then to some of the biggest and well patronised hotels. According to Patience, the girls in the business have associations and always contribute money to bribe the police and government officials, so that they would not be disturbed. Their rates start from N3000, depending on the look of the customer or time of the night.

Mide Yusuf and Matar Peter who had allegedly absconded from their Lagos parents on the pretext that they were students of Kwara State Polytechnic told NEXT that they each made an average of N30,000 monthly, a greater portion of which goes into beautification as well as wardrobe and accessories.

On her first night encounter with NEXT, Ms Yusuf said, “If you can pay four thousand (naira), I will manage it, and you will first buy me Indomie before we go.” When she was assured of a bottle of drink with the noodles if she would be willing to just discuss her life, Ms Yusuf, who also solicits for customers on Facebook, said “I don’t know why you want to know all these things, but, first I want you to know that I am just a visitor here. I don’t always come here. I am here today because I will have to pay my caretaker tomorrow. Though I am an indigene of Ilorin, but I grew up in Iyana-Ipaja, Lagos. My mum is no more with my dad and she already has four children for another man.

“My brother, a soldier at the barracks, brought me and my elder brother here. But my brother left for Lagos when he finished learning tailoring. Just some months ago, our elder brother was taken to Maiduguri and I am just here and need to survive. At least I am not a virgin, so life goes on,” she said.

At her rented apartment at Tanke area of Ilorin, Ms Yusuf introduced her friend, Ms Peter, who had also took off from her home in Lagos. Warning her friend to desist from “speaking to strangers” about her life, Ms Peter, however, reluctantly volunteered, also in pidgin English, “Me I go go back to Lagos now. I just dey here to make small money to get house.”

No more cheating

According to Ms Peter, her mother spent most her time in Coutonu, Benin Republic, and left her behind to learn the trade of selling cloths while living with her trainer, whom she said had already turned her and the other girls into instruments of making money from men, working as sex slaves.

“If you are in my shoes, you no go run? I just think say, instead of sleeping with men to bring business for my oga, then let me do it to make money for myself and later go and start my own business. Imagine, the day I leave Lagos, she sent us to Cotonou to bring cloths and whenever we go, instead of giving us money to clear at the border, she go expect say make we do anyhow with Customs, you know now. So, I just took the money for bus wey she give us and run come here,” said Ms Peter.

On the Tuesday following the national assembly election, a Toyota bus belonging to Kwara State University was sighted at a night bar that operates within the premises of the state ministry of tourism. The old man driving the bus had come to pick about 20 girls, who filled the bus, chattering about what they had already made on short-time sex services.

“It is either the man brought them from school and has come back for them or he is engaged in the usual arrangement of girls for government visitors,” said a suya (barbecue) seller in the vicinity.

The Government Reservation Area (GRA) section of the city where the girls hang out for business has been nicknamed Contractor. Now highly popular, the tag is from the buzz of the motorcycle riders and hotel attendants who always come around to “arrange” girls for business. Also in the area are to be found many guest houses, hotels and inns where “short time service” could be rendered at a rate ranging from N1000 to N2000.

Speaking to NEXT, Tom Akpor, a taxi driver plying the Contractor route, said: “Most of the girls are just students, though some of them are not in school. If you maintain that it is student that you want, I know them very well,” he said.

Challenging Mr Akpor on how he would feel if he found his sister among the night queens, he retorted: “I know wetin she dey do where she dey?” The father of two who revealed that his wife did not know that he was there, said that he was only helping the girls and not doing anything wrong.

However, unlike most of her colleagues, Patience’s few months into the business got her into trouble, as she now has to battle a much-dreaded health condition - HIV/AIDS. According to her, she had met men who took her to an hotel, induced and gang-raped her, only for her to be woken up in the middle of the day by the hotel staff.

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