Seven-year-old Jessica Gaude differs greatly from her pals. With 222 kilograms, she is the fattest child in the world.
She eats 10,000 calories each day in Coca-Colas, 15 hamburgers with fries and several kilograms of chocolate. What she eats in one day some children eat in half a year. Her breakfast consists of white bread, potato chips and two litres of coke. And she wants more.
When she last visited the doctor four years ago she had 110 kilograms. Unfortunately, she can no longer run and instead of walking she drags herself on the floor. Under such bodily weight her bones have already become distorted.
Mother Carolyn gives her daughter whatever the child wants. In the first week after she was born, when the baby cried because of stomach pains, the mother calmed her by feeding her with a bottle because she thought the child was hungry. “I gave her the bottle and she wanted more and more. It was not enough for her and she was constantly hungry”, Jessica’s mother says.....
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Sebastian Kpalap
The Centre for Environment, Human Rights and Development (CEHRD) is seriously worried about the safety of its officials given their continued brutalization which is fast assuming a pattern.
The recent torture of Mr. Sebastian Kpalap, a Special Project Officer of the Centre has heightened this fear. On Sunday, August 1, about 10:00am, Kpalap who just lost his father and was preparing to receive a contingent of his colleagues from CEHRD had hired a motor bike (not a commercial one) with registration number RV 4896 Za, and was driven by its owner, Mr. Joseph Sunday Pilla, a father of 3, in his early 40s and a bricklayer. They went to the neighbouring Gokana village to buy fresh palm wine when they met their misfortune.
A bunch of policemen wielding AK47 and well-sharpened sticks had raised an instant check point in front of the Divisional police headquarters at Kpor to extort bribe from unsuspecting poor commercial motorcyclists (popularly called Okada in Nigeria) and motorists. They intercepted Pilla and his co-traveler, Kpalap and demanded for a paltry N50 (not up to a half dollar) and the Okada river had not finished explaining when Corporal Rufus in plain cloth hit his head with a sharp stick in his hands and he slumped. A frightened Sebastian Kpalap had demanded to know what happened. For daring to ask question, the same Rufus from the notorious Kpor Police station, used same sharp stick to tear open Sebastian head, as blood oozed out he fainted and became unconscious for some hours. Corporal Barile Emmanuel also joined in the beating spree of the two innocent men.
When Sebastian became conscious the first person he called in his weak voice was Patrick Naagbanton, the coordinator of CEHRD that he was dying. Naagbanton spoke to him, and later a Police officer at the station who refused to give his name, but lied that Kpalap and Pilla (the latest victims of the lawlessness) came with guns and attempted to disarm his men.
Naagbanton led other CEHRD officials to the Kpor Police station at exactly 3:30pm, both victims were lying down under a mango tree there. They spoke to us and none of the Police around was ready to comment on it, though they looked very sober but the bribe-seeking, violent Police officers were not there. The CEHRD team took the victims to the poorly equipped and dilapidated General Hospital at Terabon in the Gokana Area with a medical form the police had signed authorizing their treatment. After paying the necessary fees and buying synergies and medicines their broken heads were stitched, and the Divisional Police Officer (DPO), Mr. Ibezim, arrived at the casualty department of the hospital where they were attended to.
After that exercise, the DPO called the CEHRD team and ordered for the release of the motorbike to Pilla and apologized to the team not to “sensationalize” the incident. The duo is still undergoing intensive medical treatment there.
A similar attack took place, on Friday, June 8, 2010, when Mr. Alexander Wikina, the Transport Officer of CEHRD was arrested by a team of heavily armed five policemen in plain cloth travelling in a white hilux car who stormed the Chief Major G.E. Odum Compound (No. 28 Ogbunabali Road) in Port Harcourt where he is staying and arrested him. This incident took place about 3:15am. He was taken to the old G.R.A Police station in same Port Harcourt, tortured, and detained in their cell on allegation of being a criminal. When Patrick Naagbanton contacted the Police and reported the case to Abba Suileman, the Rivers State Commissioner of police, they denied that they tagged him a criminal. He was released.
In the evening of Friday, March 26, 2010, Mr. Nenibarini Zabbey, the Head of the Conservation and Environment Programe of CEHRD, with whom were Dr. (Mrs.) Vincent and same Alexander Wikina, driving the CEHRD’s official van was returning from an Environmental Impact Assessment Training (EIA) held at Bodo community. A Police checkpoint near Kpor had stopped the vehicle and searched it and asked it to go, when a 2-star Police officer in the police team, Mr. Umoke singled out Zabbey and pounced on him, and tore his shirt into pieces. When other Police officers there condemned his action, he offered Zabbey N6, 000 (about $50) not to tell anybody what happened.
CEHRD is also worried about increasing Police lawlessness against other colleagues from other fraternal organizations.
On Friday April 5, 2010 at about 9:00pm, a team of Police men from Olu-Obasanjo Police station beat up Isaac Asume Osuoka, Celestine Akpobari and Ken Henshaw, three activists from Social Action (AS), a Port Harcourt-based non-governmental organization. They were attacked at Garrison junction, Port Harcourt. The heavily armed police officers travelling in a white Hilux jeep trailed them from their Oromineke layout office in the D/Line area of the metropolis. While on Friday, April 23, 2010, at about 4:45pm, a team of 5 police operating in a white Hilux jeep with registration number – NPF 9400B led by Shuibu in plain clothes violently blocked their vehicle and ordered Rev. Humprey Nsirim, Pastor Chinedu Samuel, Uche Imoh and Justine Ijeomah all civil rights activists, and threatened to shoot them. When Ijeomah, the Rivers State secretary of the Civil Liberties Organization (CLO) demanded to know their crime, Shaibu and his men placing him at gunpoint slapped him severally. They were not told their crime.
CEHRD had initially ignored all these as part mistakes on the past of the police officials. But, the violations are becoming over whelming. If it is happening to CEHRD officials and others and we are challenging it, what about millions of poor helpless citizens who don’t have the means to speak up or expose these odds? CEHRD is worried and restate its resolve to redouble its efforts to challenge these violent and lawless acts by the Nigerian police officials.
The struggle certainly continues
Patrick Naagbanton
Coordinator
Mr. Chamberlain Amadi,
A high Profile Abuja "Prostitute"
Prostitution in Abuja goes high-level as sex-peddlers, devising ways ranging from the sly to the fetish, warm the beds of top politicians and senior civil servants. Many of the girls have comfortable wealth to flaunt as returns.
In the circles of two former students of a university in south-western Nigeria, the story is still being relished. A former Minister of Works had invited the two girls to his hotel room at Transcorp Hilton Hotel, Abuja, for a sex two-some a few years ago. (‘Two-some’ in sex parlance, is when a man takes on two girls at a go for a sex bout. ‘Three-some’ involves three girls, and so on.) As one of the girls herself, a tall, dark and sultry kitten nicknamed Ebony, told this magazine, the link-up with the minister had come from a pimp famous on the university campus for his connections with National Assembly members and other top public officials in Abuja.
What still amuses the narrator is what she called the man’s “stupid inaction” despite paying a high price. The minister could not just get it up. Ebony spoke of how she and her partner worked on the minister’s organ for over two hours. She said that apart from fondling it, they took turns giving him a blow-job, BJ. A girl gives a man a BJ when she licks and sucks his organ. Despite all these, the minister could not be aroused to perform actual sexual activity. He didn’t complain, though, and even seemed satisfied. The minister gave Ebony and her partner N200,000 each for a job adjudged well done.
Ebony didn’t think of this experience, that is, the invitation to Abuja, as anything extraordinary. With her as an undergraduate, it was a norm. She confided she was involved in, at least, 10 high-level sex romps in the federal capital when she was a student. She particularly recalled trips, in company of fellow money-seeking, fun-loving friends to the palatial edifice, in Abuja, of a former governor from the South South. The ex-governor, considered to be the worst leader his state was unfortunate to have ever had, was notorious for his love for pretty teenage girls or those in their early 20s. Ebony said the least number of girls the former governor ever had in his sex romps, in which she was also a particpant, was three. “He was a pervert,” she said, adding: “He didn’t quite have the stamina for real sex, but he would order the girls to, for hours, do unprintable things with him.” On any of the occasions, the least-paid undergraduate prostitute earned N100,000.
Since Abuja earned fame as the “happening” place where milk and honey, in form of local and foreign currencies, flow ceaselessly from the wallets of federal legislators, ministers, special aides, highly placed civil servants and their wealthy private sector cronies, prostitutes of all hues have made the territory a haven to prise some fortune off what they consider the national cake. “Of all hues,” because, as a senator disclosed, besides the professional, dyed-in-the-wool harlots, plutomaniac ladies from other areas of life, ranging from housewives, contractors and career women to even stars in the entertainment industry, also frequent Abuja for lucrative rolls in the hay.
Prostitution in the city has metamorphosed from the conventional sedentary practice in local brothels and notable red light districts into a sophisticated network of ‘runs’, to use one of the many coinages applied in the trade. Today’s prostitution in Abuja wears many faces. Although the old method where patrons walk in and savour, paying a pittance, for just a few minutes of sex still exists in the suburbs and satellite towns like Kuje, Lugbe, Dutse, Karmo, Karu, Mararaba, Nyanya and Kubwa, the new trend of expensive sex holds in the many luxury hotels in the Abuja metropolis and the exquisite homes of the super rich.
The methods the high class prostitutes employ to curry patronage vary. Like Ebony, some of them are students, or pretenders as students, who come highly recommended to patrons by pimps who arrange the meetings. The pimp either receives his pay-off directly from the patron and leaves the girls to collect their wages from their patron before or after the sex act, or he packages his consultancy wholesale, whereby he collects the girls’ wages from the patron and is the one to pay them off. Girls resent this latter pay mode, though, as Olaide, a Higher National Diploma student of a polytechnic in north-central Nigeria, told TheNEWS. More often than not, the pimps grossly shortchange the girls on the handout from the patrons. Olaide related an occasion a pimp organised a “runs” for her and a friend with a House of Representatives member. The “slaughter slab”, as venue of a sex act is sometimes called in the business, was the Sheraton Hotel, Abuja where the legislator had booked a double suite. The poly undergraduate described the politician as an insatiable stud throughout the night but who was highly impressed by the girls’ compromising co-operation, despite it all. Desirous of an encore, he exchanged telephone numbers with Olaide, but not before assuring her and her friend a handsome remuneration, through his pimp contact, in appreciation of the marathon, energy-sapping sex act just concluded. “We were surprised when, the next day, our contact pal offered us each an envelope containing N50,000. Immediately, something told me he was gypping us because our customer sounded convincingly sincere about rewarding us handsomely.” Olaide called the politician, raised the question and was exasperated to learn he actually gave the pimp N250,000 for the two girls.
Many high-class prostitutes don’t wait to be invited. They (most of them are undergraduates from across the country) periodically check into major hotels in Abuja where about three or four may contribute money to take a room. They could keep the room for days or weeks. It is from this operational base that they subtly solicit for clients. It is not uncommon to see young girls sitting at the bars and poolside of big hotels in the city cooly nursing glasses of drinks or loitering in the lobby, watching out for preys.
Their numbers especially swell whenever a big event, especially an event involving the political class, is holding in the FCT. The category involved in this “runs” encompasses ladies across the board – students, contractors, professional harlots, etc. During the day, they mingle with the crowd to see what networking they can successfully achieve to ease the end of nailing down a ‘customer’. Many of the doxies, quite sassy and chic, seize every available opportunity to chat up potentially high-paying bedmates. They are usually allowed free roam by the hotel security hands, bartenders, receptionists and even front desk managers whom they tip agreeably. These conspirators not only allow them free access, they also feed them with valuable information on who is around, is generous with cash, is a cassanova and is likely to succumb to their coquettish advances. Late evening, floozies unfortunate not to have been hooked can be seen at the night clubs of the major hotels or lined up on the access roads game-hunting. Beyond cash rewards, this category of prosties, largely, are prayerful of nailing down significant ‘customers’ like suitably positioned top politicians and public officers who can award or influence the award of contracts in their favour. Whereas most of the student whores who invade Abuja are in the business principally to seek for money to pay their fees through school and take care of personal needs like feeding, clothings and toiletries, their other professional, usually older rivals are in the city willing to sell their bodies not merely to desire immediate cash, but to exploit medium to long-term business opportunities.
And how desperate they can be. A serving senator from the South-South regaled this publication of his experience with a lady he initially believed was a genuine trader. The lawmaker was on Friday 28 September 2007 in Attah village, Ikeduru Local Government Area of Imo State, at the burial ceremony of the late former Senate president, Evan Enwenrem, when the lady appeared quite unexpectedly. He had met her only once before the shock meeting at where he was lodged for the burial function. He recalled receiving the lady, shortly before the trip to Imo, in his office in the National Assembly complex in Abuja. The beautiful, well-built and endowed lady was not indecently dressed and had stated her primary mission to the office of the senator as marketing genuine men’s clothings and perfumes. But as their discussion progressed, the lawmaker observed that the lady was lavishly pouring out unmerited compliments on him. “I tried to imagine and even queried if really I was qualified for some of those encomiums,” he quipped. As she gaily talked, she was exhibiting all the come-on-and-get-me-I-am-available mannerisms of a hooker. Her message was clear.
As the senator said, he managed to break loose from the conversation when he got a call from a colleague who wanted to be kept abreast about preparations for the funeral of their departed colleague. But if the senator thought this digression and lengthy discussion with his colleague would inflict boredom on her and consequently force her to leave, he was mistaken. Indeed, the telephone discussion offered her vital information on how she could possibly track the lawmaker down, away from the office in an informal environment. With the details of the trip at her disposal, it was easy for her to catch up with the lawmaker. There, she fully unleashed her antics. The senator admitted that the very sexy and revealing cleavage of the lady was tempting, and he had to will all the discipline in him to ease her out. The senator maintained that what still amazes him is that at the first sight of the lady, nothing gave her away as a possible merchant of commercial sex business. “She was well-dressed, very beautiful, innocent-looking and simplicity personified, an admirable personality you would want to chat with with no untoward act intended, if you are the disciplined type. I was surprised when she came out oozing sex,” he remarked.
The senator was lucky to have escaped from the claws of the itinerant hooker. Danladi Ali (not his real names), a director in charge of contracts in a juicy federal ministry in Abuja was not. One bright summer morning two years ago, in July, Ali’s aide ushered a visitor into his office. The visitor was one Gladys, who introduced herself as a contractor from, and indigene of Cross River State. Gladys, the director’s aide narrated to TheNEWS, was a ravishing beauty. Tall, large-eyed, busty and flawlessly sculptured, Gladys immediately struck a chord with Ali. The visitor discussed the issue of contracts with the top ministry official, who, apparently carried away by her beauty, began promising her the world.
And he didn’t disappoint. Soon, Gladys was benefiting from an avalanche of contracts, not only from Ali’s ministry, but also from beyond as the director pulled strings to favour her considerably. Of course, all these were not obtained ex gratia. “Everybody knew my oga was sleeping with her. It was like oga himself was proud to be showing her off as his mistress,” the aide said. Gladys gained extensively from her association with Ali. She bought the 2009 Mercedes Benz 500 jeep, the 2009 Toyota Avalon saloon and a BMW sports car. She also, as asserted by the aide, owned a property in metropolitan Abuja.
Many tramps like Gladys are doing well for themselves in Abuja, always decked in expensive trendy dresses and cruising about in glittering multi-million naira rides. It is like sex is the most lucrative business in the Federal Capital Territory. And why not? A few weeks ago, this magazine reported the crazy earnings federal legislators take home every quarter, in the midst of widespread poverty in the land. And in public service generally, at the top level, corruption has assumed a grotesque dimension. At both the National Assembly and top echelon of civil service, there is so much rip-off of public funds to waste. Women who can muster the will to shun fidelity and debase their womanhood share the belief that if there is anywhere in the country where they can acquire their own wealth, it is Abuja – from the beds of federal legislators and senior civil servants.
The sex that the lady the senator said he shunned in Imo oozes is archetypal of what Abuja itself oozes. The Federal Capital does ooze sex, utilised in wads of naira notes, dollars and pound sterling. Investigations by this magazine revealed that whenever there are high profile functions in the city by politicians and captains of industry, there are always special orders for the services of girls of easy virtue. Abuja’s rich and powerful even import prostitutes from overseas. These women are typically made available to other high-powered male guests in a fashion similar to the serving of buffet at a high society event. So common is the practice that at least one former military dictator is rumoured to have died in the arms of an imported Indian prostitute.
A story is also being told derisively in Abuja about how a former president of Nigeria appointed a “pimp” as his Senior Special Assistant. As this magazine gathered, at the inception of the former president’s administration, the favoured aide was resident outside of Nigeria. Though the said ‘pimp’ was not officially an aide to the then president, he, however, had free access to the former president as his services, not formally defined anywhere, were tagged very essential. In no time, he relocated to Nigeria in a bid to make the services more regular to his boss and he became a common face in the Aso Rock Villa.
On one of such occasions, a very curious vice-president asked his boss if the “pimp” was one of the aides as his face was becoming very regular around the president’s house. The former president, reputed for his vulgar humour, was said to have answered: “Em, em, yes. He’s PA Toto.” The bewildered deputy replied: “You mean, PA Domestic Affairs?” The ex-president answered: “Yes. That is a better name for it.” It was after that encounter that the appointment of the aide was formalised. And while the administration lasted, it remained so. The aide remained one of the closest to the then president and was indeed, highly favoured by the government.
Investigations also confirmed that top politicians and public office holders are the biggest spenders on corporate prostitutes in Abuja. Away from their homes, the men usually let go of their guard to savour the adventurous world of these hookers. And to make the act clean and tidy, most of the top personalities maintain more than one room in whatever hotel they decide to lodge. This conveniently helps them beat whatever prying eyes when the girls are brought in and smuggled out.
Considering the reckless manner that the public officers lavish money on prostitutes, not a few people believe that the desperate female plutomaniacs resort to fetish means to achieve their wealth-acquisition objectives. Olaide confessed it is true. “Many of the girls and women who target top politicians in Abuja apply juju to trap their victims. It is more than ordinary, it is occultic in most cases when you see a politician or civil servant purchase a brand new expensive car or build an eye-popping property for a hustler. This is something he finds difficult to do for his wife at home. The belief among the prostituting lot is that these people have money, plenty of it, but are still stingy with it. They will rather want to go to bed with you and give you peanuts. To be able to obtain something that will ultimately free you from poverty for life from them, you need to go the extra mile,” she explained frankly. Does she specifically do it, she was asked. “I am thinking seriously about it,” she retorted.
At a night club in Abuja, according to a soft sell tabloid, a University of Abuja lady died, after sniffing cocaine. It was one of the mind bending substances that enabled her to satisfy her highly heeled customers.
Also another medium reported how a South-South senator’s wife developed brain problem after she came to Abuja to save him from the grip of his mistress. After spending two nights at the Apo quarters of the senator, he did not show up. The wife had to call her husband’s line which was picked up by the mistress. This development led to the senator’s wife’s mental complication.
However, when some of the ladies face danger, they know when to beat a retreat. That was the case with a Fulani babe who hooked an oil magnate in the city. When the businessman’s wife, who unfortunately did not have any child for the husband (though she had two in her previous marriage) got wind of this, she was angry. She started sending threats via text messages to the Fulani lady. Consequently, to prove that she was not interested in snatching the man, she returned her brand new N3.6million Honda Civic car to the man who bought it for her originally.
The daughter of a Senator was among 35 ladies who were arrested in June in Abuja. That was when men of the Abuja Environmental Protection Board and the FCT Social Development Secretariat raided Lagos Street, Garki II, Adetokunbo Ademola Crescent, Wuse, Port Harcourt Crescent Area II, zone 4 and Rita Lori Hotel off Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti way. However, when the Senator protested, the FCT later ‘found out’ that it was a case of mistaken identity as the lady just happened to be at the scene of the raid.
The sex Abuja oozes is not restricted to the high and mighty alone. Until recently when the incumbent Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Senator Bala Mohammed, decided to clamp down on prostitution in the city, the trade was for this corner, e dey there, for that corner, e dey there, as one advertisement line of the moribund African Continental Bank harped many years ago. Worried by the sharp increase in the activities of sex workers in the territory, the minister, on 12 June gave the prostitutes a 48-hour ultimatum to leave the nation’s capital or face the wrath of the law. The minister noted that the ever-increasing number of prostitutes in the city constitutes a nuisance as their services add no value to its beauty. He gave them a stern warning to heed the ultimatum, noting that the FCT Special Task Force would immediately be out to arrest them. The ultimatum was issued through the FCT Secretary for Social Development, Mrs. Blessing Onuh. The minister followed up the ban with a plea to the different religious organisations, calling on churches, mosques and other public-spirited groups and individuals to assist in rehabilitating thousands of commercial sex workers whom the ban would dislodge from Abuja streets.
A patron of the call girls at Empress Hotel in Wuse hinted on why he hardly can do without their services, saying that the current cold weather makes it difficult for him to spend the night alone. “As you can see, it is rainy season now, it is not good for a man to just go home and sleep alone,” he said. “Even though their activities are immoral, they still provide services that are much needed. Government is just trying to exhibit a holier-than-thou attitude as many top government officials patronise them regularly,” another patron said.
The Minister’s threat and enforcement would not force a total adherence from the call girls. In fact, the pronouncement has been greeted by more resistance than acquiescence. Whenever enforcement rages, the prostitutes momentarily recoil into hiding, only to resurface when it abates. “The ultimatum given to the girls has only led to an increase in their charges. Normally, they charged between N5,000 and N10,000 for us to take them home. But now, we are forced to cough out up to N12,000 or more for a clean, beautiful babe,” a patron offered.
In a protest letter signed by Mr Emmanuel Onwubiko, National Coordinator of Abuja-based Human Rights Writers’ Association of Nigeria, HURIWA, and addressed to the Minister, the group challenged the action on the grounds that it was a breach on the principle of fundamental human rights of the commercial sex workers and especially on innocent ladies that are being subjected to the same treatment as prostitutes on the suspicion that they are also hookers. “We have been duly informed by some innocent victims of the various harassment by police operatives who said they are acting on your instruction to arrest any prostitute seen on the road,” the letter read. It urged the FCT minister to re-direct or instruct that the police operatives desist from “this constant evening harassment of female citizens in the city since they could not differentiate a prostitute from a decent female citizen”. It also suggested that the administration deploy a “better, humane and rights-friendly approach to wipe out the menace of prostitution”.
But the Minister and his team are unrelenting. In backing its pronouncement with action, a combined team of men of the Abuja Environmental Protection Board, AEPB, and staff of the FCT Social Development Secretariat arrested about 35 commercial sex workers and two of their customers at various spots in the city two days after the expiration of the warning. Areas raided included Lagos Street, Garki 2, Adetokunbo Ademola Crescent Wuse 11, Port Harcourt Crescent Area 11, Zone 4 and Rita Lori Hotel, off Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti Way. It was gathered that among the arrested suspects were daughters of serving senators and members of state houses of assembly. One of the men caught allegedly patronising the call girls claimed to be the driver of a general in the Nigerian Army. The suspects were taken to the Wuse Police Station in Zone 3 where they were handed over to the police for prosecution before the intervention of some powerful forces from government saw their swift release from police detention.
The suspected prostitutes and their patrons however denied their involvement in the immoral trade, claiming that they only went out for shopping. They insisted that their arrests was infringements of their fundamental human rights.
A task force, consisting of AEPD officials and the Development Control of the Federal Capital City, pulled down Bar and Casino in Efab Estate on Sunday 27 June. Bar and Casino was alleged to harbour prostitutes and engage in the sale of drugs in the estate. The Director of AEPB, Dr Abubakar S.Yabo, as well as Director, Development Control, (TPL) of the FCT, Yahaya Yusuf described the Bar and Casino as a hideout for prostitutes that have been evacuated from the FCT, and lamented that apart from allegedly dealing in drugs, it also constituted a nuisance to residents in the estate.
But the owner of the Bar and Casino, Ogbano Chima Oduko denied the allegations. He told Leadership newspaper that his business was not in any way disturbing the residents. He blamed the Landlord and Tenants Association of the estate for his woes, while accusing them of extorting money from people who operated businesses in the place. “If you do not dance to their tune, they harass you,” he alleged.
One of the arrested prostitutes owned up to her trade and declared there was nothing wrong in what she was doing as it was nobody’s business what she did with her body. She maintained that rather than trying to frustrate them out of the business, government should register them and give them identity cards and tax numbers like their counterparts in other parts of the world, so that they could become a source of revenue generation for the government. She maintained that the government had no moral right to drive them off the streets as they had high ranking public officers in the public and private sector among their clientele.
Perhaps so. According to Felix Abraham Obi, a physiotherapist and writer based in Abuja, in his recount of his date with a prostitute, the streets of Abuja still looked innocent and oblivious of the paradox that the city personified. Indeed, the grandiose streets and well-trimmed neighbourhoods, Abuja is actually replete with seemingly innocent streets that house prostitutes of different hues and shapes at night. Obi believes that the men are as guilty as the female who are branded prostitutes as “supply will always continue for as long as demand exists.”
And as one of the suspects puts it, “the government is disturbing us because we do ours in the open. What about other ladies who claim to be workers in Abuja? They also do it for money. They sleep with men both in their houses and hotels or the men’s places, as well.” Club and street prostitutes argue that while their action arose from the prevailing poverty in the country, the activities of corporate prostitutes are profoundly rooted in greed given vent by inordinate business quests.Abuja parades quite an array of red light spots. These include the sprawling night clubs scattered all over the city, eateries, lounges and gardens. Some of these busy arena include the Dome Niteclub, Club Excellensio, Safari Nite Club in Transcorp Hilton, Grand Mirage Night Club, Rita Lori Night Club and the Silverbird Galleria. At any of these joints, ladies in various shapes and sizes attired in the most provocative dresses are seen soliciting for men.
But as government continues to make efforts to rid the streets of Abuja of the menace, many believe that the battle may end up as an exercise in futility unless the core problem of poverty is squarely addressed. Shehu Sani, a civil rights activist declared: “The Nigerian elite or political class are cruel and deceptive in their approach to national issues and are ridiculously hypocritical. They want to make Abuja a paradise where there are no vices, no crimes and where the streets are made of gold, where there will be 24 hours electricity to enable them enjoy their privileges, but the fact remains that you can’t make other places hell and enjoy paradise in Abuja. The 36 states of the country are impoverished by local government chairmen, state governors, ministers and National Assembly members who live in Abuja. Therefore, prostitutes cannot vacate Abuja because they are by-products of a collapsed system, they are products of a collapsed economy, and they are functions of a failed State and failed leadership that have come to live with us.
The problem of Abuja is not prostitution, but about treasury looters, about plunderers, about irresponsible public office holders who have milked the country dry, have created an atmosphere of fear and have made life unbearable for the citizens. As a human rights activist, I believe that these prostitutes are products of a morally degenerated society which we can still check by doing the right thing because some of the prostitutes are university students who cannot afford to pay their school fees.”
—Desmond Utomwen & Femi Ipaye
“I dey kampe,” meaning ‘I am alive and well’, said Obasanjo jocularly in pidgin English in a telephone interview.
“This morning I went to do community work at Pakoto near Ifo.
“I have since returned to Abeokuta and have attended a meeting on the (Presidential) library”, Obasanjo said.
He thanked all those who had expressed concern over his safety, adding that in the belief of his Yoruba people, it meant that he still has many more years to live.Photo:Chief Olusegun Obasanjo with his daughter, Esther during her engagement ceremony held Saturday, in Abeokuta..
Confusion yesterday gripped the nation particularly residents of Ogun State following the rumor that the former President was assassinated by unknown gunmen in his private residence, Obasanjo Hill Top, in Abeokuta, broke today and had spread across the land.
The confusion reached its climax when all efforts of the Journalists in the State at getting across the Ota farmer through his phone proved abortive at the initial stage.
But the former president who spoke to Journalists in a telephone interview debunked the rumor as he explained that he was calling from his office in Agbeloba, Abeokuta North Local Government area of Ogun State.
In was learnt that relatives in the neighboring states , especially Lagos and Oyo States were already calling their Relations in the Capital city to find out if the former President had been murdered.
Obasanjo, on Saturday, gave out the hand of one of his daughters, Miss Bunmi, in marriage in Abeokuta, the occasion which was attended by dignitaries across and beyond the shore of Nigeria.
The Ota farmer, who described the rumor as mere fallacy confirmed the rumor about his death, saying “I also heard that I am dead, I am alive.”
According to him, “Thank you for taking the trouble to find out, I think you can recognize my voice, I am in my office at Agbeloba, thank you for taking time to find out. I also heard that I am dead, I am alive.”
Controversial Nollywood actress, Tonto Dike is in the news again. A report by one of the nation’s celebrity journals, alleged that the beautiful upcoming but popular actress, Tonto Dike and son of Kema Chikwe’s son, Naeto C are now trailed with amorous affair rumour.
The romance tale which has become an issue in town has started sending signals to those who are said to have once romanced the musically talented dude, Naeto C e.g. Omowunmi Akinnifesi and others, to desist from him or face the wrath of the highflying and fun-seeker actress, Tonto. Photo Tonto,Naeto C 'n model in ringtone video shot in Newyork
However, information is reaching us that the man at the centre of the rumoured affair, Naeto C, has reiterated that Tonto Dike is a woman after his own heart and that he would not mind taking her to the altar to soleminise their union.
Reacting to the romance rumour, Tonto was said to have not met Naeto C one-on-one, she also said that she only knows him to be one of the good-looking Naija artistes. The report further stated, “Tonto denied the said affair vehemently and said that there was no iota of truth in the report” she was quoted to have reacted when she was probed further to comment on the marriage proposition Naeto C nurtures towards her.
Starcomms Plc has become the first Code Division Multiple Access operator in the world to provide its customers the opportunity of enjoying international roaming.
This, according to the telecoms company on Friday, became possible as a result of the agreement signed with two roaming service providers, Mach and Accuris networks in March, 2010.
With the agreement, pre-paid inter-standard roaming calls can be made to a GSM network by Starcomms CDMA customer.
According to the Chief Executive Officer, Starcomms, Mr. Maher Qubain, the over 3.2 million customers of the company now have the rare opportunity of a seamless access to international mobile roaming on all wireless technology networks.
He said this would greatly expand Starcomms network coverage outside Nigeria and simplify the roaming experience of such customers, who might have reasons to travel outside the country.
He said, ”The commitment of Starcomms to providing innovative products and services that simplify lives and enhance living for our customers is a tradition we hold dear. We know that many customers yearn for the high quality services of Starcomms everywhere they go. So, the pioneering step of adding inter-standard roaming capabilities to our portfolio as a CDMA network in this country is just an added evidence of our practice of always being the first to give customers the best.”
The solution, which can be implemented by using existing connections, offers end-users all of the services that are available on their home network, even when they are travelling. With end-to-end one-number interoperability, operators can provide complete voice and messaging services easily. .
”The seamless interoperability roaming access that MACH provides for over 600 networks all over the world is in line with the high quality services that Starcomms has been providing its customers in Nigeria,” Qubain said
The Nollywood versatile actress, who was born in London almost three decades ago, we learnt, gave birth without any complication. The mother of two, whose husband is the happiest father on earth, has been in London for months now for the ante-natal and series of medical check-ups.
The beautiful, fun-loving, romantic and very adventurous 2004 graduate of Theatre Arts from the Nnamdi Azikwe University, Akwa, Oge, was sighted in a good mood by our source in London last Saturday looking so radiant shortly after the delivery of the beautiful bouncing baby
. Stanley Duru, the Nigerian born Belgium based husband of the star actress, Oge, was said to be right at the hospital to help her wife carry the baby home. Say Love wantin-tin and you are not far from the truth. .
While Oge was still carrying the baby in her womb, she was said to have enjoyed herself to the fullest with her husband, attending partings and interesting places together. We wish her all the best. And for the bundle of joy, we say a big, WELCOME TO THE WORLD!
Oge has been off the movie scenes for more than 8 months now and if there is anything she wishes for herself now that she has given birth, it’s to return in a big way to the screen as soon as she can.
According to Maleke, he said he came for the event organized by his recording label, 911 Entertainment outfit and was surprised to see Ayirimi Emami order his thugs numbering over 12 to beat the living daylights out of him.
Speaking to Trend'tainment in Pidgin English, he said he is still recovering from the attack.
“My brother, no be small thing. I just come make I perform normally only to see my boss order his boss to beat me. They attacked me with everything they had and made me bleed from the nose and other parts of my body. They left me when they think say I don faint.”Unfortunately, Emami, who is going for the Federal House of Representatives in the 2011 elective year and who is alleged to be the militants uprising that prevented the EFCC from arrested the former governor of Delta State, Mr. James Ibori, never bothered to pick the calls placed to him by Trend'tainment. Trend'tainment gathered that Emami is said to be stupendously rich and has a property worth over N1b which sits on over four standard football fields has vowed to make life unbearable for Maleke.Maleke said he is making an appeal to Nigeria and the Inspector-General of Police, Mr. Ogbonna Onovo, to save him from eminent danger and risk of losing g his life as he is afraid that more harm awaits him since his boss is still spitting fire..
The killing of a chartered accountant with Intercontinental Finance, a subsidiary of Intercontinental Bank Plc, Alhaji Ademola Adeagbo, on Friday evening by some unidentified gunmen, is being trailed by conflicting accounts.
A younger brother of the deceased, Mr. Adeniyi Adeagbo, told our correspondent on Sunday that his brother was brutally murdered by people suspected to be hired assassins at Orimerunmu in Obafemi-Owode Local Government Area of Ogun State.
But the police in Ogun State, who said that the deceased’s metallic grey Toyota Corolla metallic grey car had been recovered in addition to N94,000, a laptop, briefcase, four packet shirts and one wristwatch in his car, stated that it was not likely to be a case of assassination because he did not die immediately..
Adeniyi told PUNCH METRO that on the fateful day, the gunmen had first driven to the residence of the slain banker in a private vehicle but did not find him there.
He said they subsequently launched a manhunt for him until they met him on the road, discussing with one of his neighbours who was said to be recuperating from her illness.
He said, “When my brother returned from work, he went to his wife’s shop to look for her. When he got to the shop, his wife was not there but met his children and two of his friend’s children in the shop. His children decided to go with him in his car.
“As they were going towards home, he met his wife. His wife told him that there was a neighbour of theirs who had been ill for some time and that he should go and greet her. As he was going to the neighbour’s house, he met her on the way. He stopped, came out of the car and exchanged pleasantries with her. As he was talking with the woman, some men drove near them and stopped. They came out from their car and told him they were policemen and that he was under arrest.
“My brother told them he had no problem with the police and that if they were actually policemen, they should identify themselves. After saying that, the men put hands in their pouch as if they wanted to bring out their identification cards only for them to bring guns out and started dragging him to enter into their car in the full glare of his three children and the neighbour he was greeting. As he refused to follow them, they pulled the trigger and shot him dead. As the neighbour and the children ran away shouting, ‘Won ti pa Alhaji, (they have killed Alhaji), the gunmen zoomed off with my brother’s official car and their own.”
Adeniyi said that when the news filtered in that 45-year-old Adeagbo had been killed, the youths in the area allegedly chased the gunmen and they abandoned his brother’s official car at the end of Orimerunmu Road.
Curiously, his assailants did not ask him for money or anything, but were said to have told him before they shot him that they did not want anything from him but his life.
Speaking amid tears, Adeniyi told our correspondent that his brother’s death dealt a devastating blow to him in particular and the family in general.
He said his brother was a fine gentleman who was kind to a fault, wondering why good people should be killed with such cruelty.
“My brother did not do any business with anybody. I do not know why they chose to kill him. They have caused problem for us. He was the light of our family. I do not know how to pick the pieces of my life that his death has caused me. He was one brother that understood the plight of his people,” the anguished brother said.
However, the Ogun State Police Command spokesman, Mr. Ademuyiwa Adejobi, said, “It is not likely to be a case of assassination because he did not die immediately. He was alive when the vehicle was being taken away. He struggled with the bandits when he was shot.
“The command wishes to appeal to members of the public that when such things happen, they should not struggle with the bandits. The command is investigating a case of armed robbery and not assassination.”
Our correspondent, who visited the residence of the Adeagbos, saw a motley crowd coming to commiserate with the family.
The deceased’s wife was inconsolable. Many sympathisers thronged the residence to pay their last respects.
It was gathered that Adeagbo would be buried on Sunday.
It was easy in retrospect in the 1912 Olympic Stadium late on Friday night to say you had seen it coming, that the defeat which struck down the mighty Lightning Bolt had not arrived entirely out of the blue. The amateur psychologists, the budding Freuds among us, might have read the runes in the Jamaican's somewhat leaden body-language as he emerged from the tunnel at the east end of the arena for the big race on the north side of the Swedish capital..
Was that the hint of a limp as Usain Bolt made his way up the finishing straight towards the 100m start? If not, the world's fastest man was certainly dragging his feet. In contrast, half a minute or so later, Tyson Gay appeared on the track looking like a man on a mission. The American had a purpose in his stride and was deep in conversation with himself.Photo Left :American Tyson Gay celebrates his 100m victory on Friday night but said, 'You've got to be honest, Usain went out there knowing he wasn't in the best shape'
It was not difficult to imagine the gist. This was the one. This was his big chance to claim the big scalp. And thus it proved.
Bolt lined up for the 100m final at the DN Galan Meeting but when the starting gun fired, at the third time of asking, he was never at the races. Gay was out of his blocks ahead of him and had the race as good as won by halfway. The 27-year-old Kentuckian prevailed by a stride in 9.84sec, breaking Asafa Powell's stadium record and earning a diamond to take home for his mother.
Bolt was the runner-up in 9.97, a pale shadow of the sparkling gem who had dazzled the world with his 9.69 slowing down at the Beijing Olympics two years ago and with his 9.58 pushing to the line at the World Championships in Berlin last summer. This was his slowest 100m time outside of a qualifying-round heat, and his first defeat in a 100m final since Powell beat him by 0.01sec at the same Stockholm meeting in July 2008.
So, had the sprint world turned on its head? Had the jolt for Bolt marked a definitive changing of the guard?
The answer was clear to see in the muted demeanour of the victor. It was not exactly a hollow victory for Gay, but it was nowhere near a decisive one. "You've got to be honest," he said, reflecting on the upset. "Usain went out there knowing he wasn't in the best shape. Neither of us was at our best, but I was expecting to win.
"I respect him for still coming down here to compete for the fans. I came here knowing I wasn't 100 per cent either. My knee was bothering me. I just blocked everything out and ran the best I could."
Gay has been hampered by hamstring and knee problems this summer. Bolt missed six weeks of training and racing because of an Achilles tendon injury. The rust was clear to see in his heat and in the final. Bolt has three weeks in which to brush up sufficiently to gain revenge in the scheduled rematch, in the final meeting of the Samsung Diamond League series in Brussels on 27 August. "I need to work on my strength," he said. "My strength is really low. It let me down in the first 30 metres. Tyson was in better shape."
Bolt's resolve would also appear to require some strengthening. On the eve of the big race he confessed he had "slacked off" this summer, with no global championship to aim for. In the wake of defeat on Friday, he added: "This is not one of those seasons when I am fully working hard. This is my easy season. If you don't beat me this year, then it's not going to happen. Next year I will take care of business."
In late August next year, Bolt's 100m world title will be on the line at Daegu in South Korea. Meanwhile, at Crystal Palace next Friday his American conqueror will be on the start line at the Aviva London Grand Prix. The Lightning Bolt, beaten in Stockholm but still king of the sprint world, will not attend the south London Palace.
In 9ja wonders shall never end. Last Monday uproar along Keffi- Akwaga Road, Nasarawa state, got residents of the area wondering what the problem was, as members of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) fled in different directions.
Decency was thrown to the dust as some of them reportedly fled half unclothed and bare footed, jumping into any available means of transportation, from a camp located about a kilometer behind a police post, which is used as orientation of the NYSC members.
In their confused states, most of them fled, leaving their property at the mercy of the invaders who were later discovered to be officials of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defense Corps (NSCDC). However, some of the unlucky ones were whisked away in the NSCDC vehicle.
A total of sixty-nine fake corps members according to him were arrested. Among them was a nursing mother who reportedly came to the camp with her child. During interrogation, Emmanuel said the arrested fake corps members confessed to have paid as much as N70,000 to N150,000 to their agents , in order to take part in the compulsory one year service at the end of which they would be issued NYSC discharge certificates. They were said to have also confessed that the gentle man agreement did not include their benefitting from the Federal government monthly allowance.
Fake Corps Members Jpg.
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THE battered wife of the deposed Deji of Akure, Olori Bolanle Adepoju Adesina, Monday sought forgiveness for her banished husband, Oba Adepoju Adesina.
She particularly urged the Ondo State Government and the Akure community to rescind their decision to sack the former monarch.
Adesina was dethroned about two months ago by the government for allegedly assaulting Olori Bolanle in public.
He is presently banished from Akure.
Olori Bolanle addressed reporters after the end of a reconciliatory meeting held by heads of her family and those of the Adepoju Adesina royal family.
She said: "At the end of the crucial meeting, family of the Deji withdrew the controversial statement which disowned my children as potential members of Adesina royal family."
She urged traditional rulers to help her appeal to the government to rescind its decision on the deposed monarch..
Bolanle said: "I also impress it on my colleague oloris in the state to support my pleading to Akure kingmakers, eminent Akure indigenes, youths, indigenes of the state and Akure people in the Diaspora."
In a letter of apology to the Olori’s family in Owo, the Adepoju Adesina royal family appealed to the head of the family, Chief Akinola Fadeyi, for forgiveness.
It urged the family to disregard the statement on alleged infidelity and doubtful paternity of the two princes whom Olori Bolanle has for the deposed Akure monarch.
It said: "Our family, like yours, is rather disturbed by the undue publicity and political manipulations to which this ordinary matrimonial matter has been subjected."
The statement was jointly signed by Cheif Abisoye Adesina, Prince Ibukun Adepoju Adesina and Princess Bobola Adepoju Adesina.
It said the report credited to the former monarch was made in the heat of passion based on the prevailing circumstances at that time.
The family said the two children are their authentic children and not bastards.
While some of these girls are undergraduates in various higher institutions of learning in the country, others are just trying to make ends meet.
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Some of these white men are in Nigeria for greener pastures while others are called upon by companies operating in the country to take up jobs because of their technical know-how.
The girls often meet these men, a term used to describe Europeans, White Americans and Asians, in places like night clubs, bars, shopping malls and parties.
One of the girls, Osagie Ruth, confirmed that Nigerian girls prefer white men because they spend money without thinking twice. He also said they were more romantic.
Citing an instance, Ruth, who is excited about having white men as lovers, said she has vowed never to date any black man until when she is ready for marriage.
According to her, this vow became necessary after experiencing several heartbreaks with Nigerian men.
“Can you believe that the last one I dated was a married man with three kids? He never told me he was married until I almost got lynched by his wife who saw us while we were in the heat of passion in his supposed house.
“I would have been dead by now. The worst part of it was that he hardly gave me money for my upkeep and he monitored my daily activities as if I was in prison custody, yet I stayed in the relationship as I needed a man desperately,” she explained.
She said she was introduced into the “business” by a friend and since then she has “been living in the sweetest world.
“I now have a Honda car and a well furnished apartment.”
Another girl, who maintained anonymity said she prefers dating white men because “they are more understanding and they give us freedom to do a lot of things compared to their Nigerian counterparts.”
She said she could date other men and engage in other ventures that would fetch her money without the prying eyes of her white guys. But that is not the case with the Nigerian men, who she described as greedy and crooked in their love life.
“They prefer hiding you somewhere and doing it only in secret places with you for fear of being recognised by other people.
“But the white men are always proud to move around with you openly. They are proud of what they have even if we are only with them for money.”
Asked why she loves dating only white men, Philomena Okeke, an undergraduate, retorted: “Why I no go date them? Even if they look like albinos, it is a matter of closing my eyes when we are having fun. I begin to think of black people when it is happening.
“Though I hate them, I need their money. I have also had many heartbreaks from Nigerian men and I decided to give the whites a try. I have no regrets so far.”
P.M.NEWS also gathered from the girls that not all the white men are nice. The ones from Asian countries, India and Lebanon do not like to spend. According to some of the girls, men from these areas prefer paying peanuts after satisfying themselves.
“When dealing with people from these areas, we collect our money first. I am not an animashaun (meaning free giver in Yoruba)” one of the girls, who was seen hanging out with a white man in an eatery told P.M. NEWS.
However, some of the white men are said to be so happy with the ladies that they could go as far as buying houses and cars for them and sending them on vacation abroad.
Ijeoma, a 28-year old lady, who now has two kids for a white man residing in the country, agreed that the reasons for the preference varied.
According to her, “one thing that a black girl sees in a white guy is money in this part of the world because of poverty.
“For others, they want to be seen that they are powerful girls that can trap a white guy. Others want to have a white baby, get married and have security.
“Sometimes, a white guy in Africa might be having a hard time and the next thing on his mind is to go out and bang just any girl. You will find such guys mostly around bars, clubs, etc.
“Now, the girl in return wants a guy to sell her body too and get some few change and they talk, arrange to meet and he takes her to his place and they have sex. He pays her off and other times, there is a huge argument, the girl wants more money probably because she knows she will never see him again and instead of taking N5,000 she will demand for N50,000.
“These white guys also get better pay and remember, they are expatriates, and while their families are abroad, they need to have fun and they discovered that there are loads of loose girls here.
“The second type of girls that go for white guys want to be perceived as powerful, big girls. They travel with the white men, live high class life and have a good sex life. You see these girls driving powerful cars and living in high brow areas of the city.”
Engr. Emeka Ezenwanne , Aug 04 2010 01:58pm (4 Comments)
OPEN LETTER TO DORA AKUNYILI by Engr. Emeka Ezenwanne On behalf of Dora Akunyili's Late Eldest Sister's Family
Dear Aunty Dora,
1. I write you this letter as your first nephew and first son of your late sister. I write you on behalf of our family―the family of your late eldest sister. I write with deep sorrow and pain in my heart. I have chosen this medium because it seems to be the only medium you enjoy and especially since you decided to politicize the death of my mother through the mass media. You are the Minister of Information and Communication and in control of Government owned media. You have really demonstrated to us and all Nigerians how much powers you have by mobilizing all Government media to fight your private family battles. You know I have always cared for and respected you and all my aunties and uncles. This letter is out of care and concern for you Aunty. You may not appreciate it now but I am sure that in a few years time, it will all make sense. The goal of this letter is to remind you of our mortality in this world, and to beg of you to please let my mother truly rest in peace!
2. You would recall Aunty that when you were lobbying for the NAFDAC position, you asked my late mother and all of us to go on fasting and prayers and that if God answered our prayers, the family would never be the same again. It is up to you, Aunty, to assess whether in the last 10 years you have been in public service the family has seen more pain or gain. I now agree that power corrupts. But Aunty take it easy because as the late Azikiwe once reminded everyone, ‘no condition is permanent’! Life is a stage, and all positions remain temporal and ephemeral. In the end, you will still need this family, and you may not know exactly when or how!
3. Your tribute to my late mother attests to the fact that she literally brought you up, and was the matriarch of your family since your parents died early. But over the last several years, you brought so much pain and sorrow that she regretted having you as a sister. Her unanswered question remained: "what did I do to Dorothy?" Only you can answer that question! It speaks volumes that your eldest sister who doubled as your mother was sick for about six months and even flown abroad for six weeks and you did not know. Of course, if you were in talking terms with her or if you ever called her on phone, you would have known. Whatever may be your reasons for your behaviour towards her, it baffles us that you have no compassion even to the dead. Your conduct before, during and after the burial/funeral ceremonies gave the impression that you were bent on disrupting the ceremonies for reasons best known to you. In the attempts, caution was thrown to the winds and perhaps you may not be aware that you committed several abominations in the process.
(a) First and without consultation with our family, you left your hometown (Nanka) and came to set up a parallel, rival funeral site next to our compound (contrary to custom and tradition). When I noticed this abominable arrangement two weeks to the burial, I politely begged and explained to Uncle Anayo (your younger brother who came to make the arrangement) that it was not proper. We thought it was settled. My family was shocked to notice in the early hours of the burial day, that you adamantly went ahead to set up a tent beside our family house as your own funeral site. It took the intervention of our kindred, the traditional ruler, and the police to convince your occupation force to relocate to your home town Nanka as the tradition demanded. Of course, the soldiers and police you brought to enforce your wish brutalized several members of my kindred who protested the abomination. Aunty, our hearts bled. Is this the use of power which you asked us to fast and pray for? You know best the reasons for your strained relationship with my mother, and even at her death, you brought truck loads of soldiers and police to harass and beat up innocent people who came to mourn her death. We did not find this act funny, Aunty. Now that my mother has died, are you now on a mission to also conquer her family?
(b) Why did you not allow your immediate elder brother, Uncle Joseph, who is the first son of your parents, to be part of your delegation to the burial/funeral? By tradition, he was expected to lead the delegation of our Uncles and aunties. We were shocked when you stood in the Alter of God and publicly announced that your more successful younger brother, Uncle Anayo, was the head of the Edemobi family. Is Uncle Joe dead? Some of us can only hazard a guess as to the reasons. But Aunty, to deny him the opportunity to see the corpse of his eldest sister and also publicly deny him his birthright as the head of the Edemobi family (on tape) is an abomination! It pained us that Uncle Joe was not allowed to see his sister’s corpse and pay his last respects. Dear Aunty, there will be life after Government!
(c) Again, Aunty, why would you bribe the Umuada Nanka (paid each N5000) so that they won’t perform their last rites to my mother? On the morning of Saturday, July 17, we sent a bus to bring the leadership of Umuada as we were directed but were told that you asked them not to come. Must you go this far Aunty? Well, we are happy that we fulfilled all the requirements as demanded by your people and the Umuada, as required by custom and tradition, including the cow, etc. By tradition, you and the Umuada are now the ones owing my mother! Money, they say, is the root of all evils. With money, Aunty, you have created a crisis among the Umuada. Many of them have called us to complain that you have goaded them into committing an abomination by not giving my mother her right, and are now demanding a date from us so that they can shed the burden. We leave you and the Umuada to your conscience, to God, and the spirit of my mother!
(d) We heard you were complaining that the corpse of my mother was not brought to you at Nanka before the burial. Very funny, isn’t it, Aunty? Remember this was the woman you had not spoken to in over a year. How many times in the last five years did my mother enter that compound? Why would she do so only as a corpse? By the way, when did it become the custom and tradition of Nanka that a married daughter of Nanka would never be buried unless and until the corpse has been taken to her father’s compound in Nanka? Aunty, I am sure you know enough that taking of corpses to the deceased’s father’s home is simply a gesture of goodwill (especially when the corpse has been put in a mortuary, where it is convenient to do so, and where existing relationship is cordial) and never a requirement by custom and tradition in Nanka or even the environs. What if she was married in Calabar and the survivors had no money to even put the corpse in the mortuary?
Finally, everyone of the over ten thousand people who attended the two day events attested that it was a funeral to be remembered for years for its huge success. While everyone was praising us and our inlaws for giving our mother a historic burial, you went ahead to call a press conference to give bad publicity to the events. Well, he who has decided to dance unclothed in the market place must not blame the children for taking a glance at his nudity. I will refrain from commenting on that press conference and your spurious allegations therein. We were all shocked that you could boldly fabricate such stories about thugs and tell the whole world. My mother must be perplexed anywhere she is about your conduct and how you are paying back her family for all she did for you. Think about this Aunty, you could not devote one minute of network news to announce the death of your eldest sister but devoted minutes of airtime in all TV stations including the NTA network news, radio, and the print media to run your obviously self-serving advertisements to ensure that the burial had a bad press. It is well!.
4. My last word, Aunty, is that you should take it easy. Please watch it Aunty because, aside from the choruses and trumpets that go with power, the ship may be getting empty by the day. Always remember, we all love you. We earnestly pray that you will still come to the reality that aside from God, your most important possession is family! We are still observing the 40 days of mourning, but I will not forget to send our belated happy birthday wishes. We will continue to pray for you, Aunty!
With all best wishes,
Your nephew,
Engr. Emeka Ezenwanne
Could this marriage be real love or simply an opportunity to inherit the properties of the old woman as she is closer to her grave? see Pictures below