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Veteran Nigerian actress, dancer, and vocalist, Toun Oni is dead. The actress passed away Wednesday morningwhile being rushed to the hospital.
“She complained about not feeling too well last night and thenthis morning she felt very weak so we had to rush her to the St Paul’sHospital, Ebute-Metta, but she passed away before we arrived there,”said her son, Toyin Oni. “We were rushing her to the hospital from ourAjah home.” The body of the late actress has been deposited at St Paul’sHospital, while funeral arrangements are currently being finalised atthe family house at 66a Brick Field Street, Ebute Metta, Lagos.
Fondly called Mama T, Toun Oni was one of Nigeria’s most successful cross-over actresses. She was also arecipient of the prestigious Order of Niger (OON), conferred in 2006. Astaunch Jehovah Witness, she will be remembered for her many movieroles. Her most memorably roles were undoubtedly on television, withparts in one of Nigeria’s longest running soap opera, ‘Checkmate,’ andthe popular ‘Fuji House of Commotion,’ where she played Mama Moji.
Equally at home in movies and television, she tended to feature more in soap operas, and it is forthese that she will be remembered by most fans. Amaka Igwe, who produced‘Fuji House of Commotion,’ could not be reached for her reaction on thelate actress’ death as at press time. Toun Oni’s career dated back tothe 70s. She was aged 67..
"The Internet's completely over,” Prince told British tabloid publication, The Mirror, in his first newspaper interview in 10years. “I don't see why I should give my new music to iTunes or anyoneelse. They won't pay me an advance for it and then they get angry whenthey can't get it.”
Prince is currently set to release his latest album, “20Ten,” for free through various European print media, including the Daily Mirrorand its Scottish affiliate, the Daily Record. Fans can snag their copythis Saturday via the different press outlets, but you they certainlywon’t find any of the new material online.
Prince has banned both YouTube and iTunes from using his music, calling the web obsolete.
“The Internet's like MTV,” he told the mirror. “At one time MTV was hip and suddenly it became outdated. Anyway, all these computers anddigital gadgets are no good. They just fill your head with numbers andthat can't be good for you.".
Plans for a “20Ten” in the States haven’t been announced. What do you think, is Prince on the verge smart new alternative for releasingalbums or does his approach seem misguided?
Members of the House of Representatives cutting across the six geographical zones yesterday gave the Speaker, Dimeji Bankole, seven days to resign, or be disgraced out of office.
The representatives who call themselves the ‘progressives,' said at a press conference in Abuja that Mr Bankole's leadership is corrupt, inept and high-handed. Armed with what they claimed were incriminating documents, the lawmakers said Mr Bankole's leadership led to an unprecedented rift between both arms of the National Assembly and brought the House to disrepute.
Members of the group include: Dino Melaye (PDP, Kogi); George Daika (PDP, Plateau); Bitrus Kaze (PDP, Plateau); Austin Nwachukwu (PDP, Imo); Ehiogie West Idahosa, Anas Adamu (PDP, Jigawa); and Independence Ogunewe (PDP, Imo). Others are Solomon Awhinawhi (PDP, Delta); Ralph Okeke (PDP, Anambra); Darlington Okereke (PDP, Ebonyi); and Asita Honourable (PDP, Rivers).
A litany of complaints
"We hereby, therefore, in strong terms call on Bankole to resign immediately as the speaker of the representatives within 7 days," said Mr Melaye, who spoke for the group. "We are asking him to resign for the following reasons: one, corruption in leadership; two, because of his leadership style, which today is responsible for the rift, disagreement, and disharmony between the two brothers in the National Assembly, the Senate and the Reps. The relationship between the two has never been this bad.
Three, we are also asking him to resign because of his high handedness, disrespect for members; four, his frequent breach of the rules of the House; five, his sweeping and unsubstantiated comments capable of causing disaffection among the various arms of government."
He said the speaker had once openly accused civil servants and the civil service of gross corruption, but failed to substantiate the claims when the then head of service, Ama Pepple, challenged him on the allegations.
"And I want to say that, failure to comply with our call in the interest of the Nigeria and Nigerians, especially the masses of this country, this group has overwhelming evidence, information, everything you see here, they are incriminating records that we will publish, give to you the media, and assure you in seven days, we are going to write a petition that every member including the ones on recess will sign, physically, personally and we will send it to the EFCC, the ICPC, the NSA, the SSS and indeed, the headquarters of his political party."
Bad publicity
Mr Melaye, said under the leadership of Mr Bankole, the sterling qualities, which the House exhibited since 1999, have been lost, stressing that the public perception of the lower chamber has declined.
"We are here this afternoon to unequivocally say without fear of favour, that the House of Representatives, you read about in 1999; the House of Representatives that West Idahosa was a member of; the House of Representatives in 2000; the House of Representatives with its sterling qualities exhibited during (Ghali) Na'Abba; the House of Representatives that was laboriously built by (Aminu) Masari, is not the same today," he said.
"The public perception of the House has ingloriously declined. We used to be the pacesetters of legislative practice in this country, but it is obvious that we have been overtaken because of the ineptitude of leadership (and) because of all these negative manifestations, the House under Bankole has nose-dived and has lost its earned positive reputation."
No child play
Asked if the group will not, like in the past, back down on its demand that Mr Bankole should go, Mr Melaye said, "This is no child play. We have resolved to clean our House. We have resolved and are determined that he who comes to equity must come with cleans hands. And we have resolved that these evidence will be given to each of you and we are ready to defend it anywhere and anytime.
This is not a secret presentation. We are very, very sure of the facts. These documents are incontrovertible."
He said even though Mr Bankole will as usual say that the documents are fake, they intend to challenge him to produce the original.
Collaborating Mr Melaye's claims, Mr Idahosa (PDP Edo state), said the House has never had it so bad in the last 10 years..
"Many of you know that when we talk about the history of the House, I have the privilege of writing the rules together with my colleagues in 1999," he said. "And thereafter, I have served (Salisu) Buhari, Na'Abba, Masari (Patricia) Etteh, and I will say, I have the misfortune of serving in this era. We have never had it so bad. We have never had such a legislative tyranny as we do have now. We have never in this House turned our Ethics and Privileges Committee into a hunting machine of fellow members.''
‘Ostrich display'
In a swift reaction to the demand for Mr Bankole's resignation, the House leadership said Mr Melaye and his group misled the perceptive public with their proverbial ‘ostrich display' by masquerading selfish tendencies for public interest.
"Their activities could best be a swan song but they are advised to avail themselves with the allowances of House rules and extant provisions of the relevant statues," said House spokesperson, Eseme Eyiboh, in the statement. "The present leadership is a creature and creation of the generality of the House and the prevalent synergy culminating in the successful constitution review vindicates the acceptability of the leadership. Those ‘progressives' should vacate their theatre or be absolved and come to join other discernible members to complement the current legislative engagements for executive action."
The Super Eagles team that would come face to face against the Argentinian side this afternoon includes Enyeama, Odiah, Taiwo, Shittu, Yobo, Kaita, Etuhu, Obasi, Lukman, Aiyegbeni and Nsofor.
The match which is scheduled for 3:00pm today (Nigerian time)would take place at the Ellis Park in Johannesburg.
With a bible in his left hand and clutching some oath papers with the right, Alphonsus Ubanese Igbeke of the All Nigeria People’s Party yesterday took the oath that confirmed him as the senator representing Anambra North senatorial district. The event, which took place at the Senate chambers, brings an end to a protracted, “tortuous and dramatic” journey to the senate...
He will now replace Joy Emordi who had spent three years in a four year tenure that started in 2007.
Until yesterday, Mrs Emordi, had tenaciously held on to the senate seat despite court rulings ousting her from the senate. She had in March been asked by an Enugu Appeal Court to leave the senate following the court’s ruling that it was Mr. Igbeke who got the majority vote at the 2007 Anambra North senatorial election.
Mrs Emordi, however, stayed back in the senate - and the senate leadership refused to admit Mr Igbeke - after she appealed to the court for an interpretation of its ruling against an earlier ruling in her favour. A month later, the court ordered the Senate to admit Mr. Igbeke “immediately,” but the leadership of the upper chambers refused to do that, citing a notice about a fresh case instituted by Mrs Emordi in the Supreme Court.
His admittance into the Senate yesterday followed the advice of Bello Adoke, the Attorney General of the Federation and Minister of Justice, who told the Senate that unless there was a court injunction restraining the Senate from admitting Mr. Igbeke, there was no legal grounds to refuse him the oath of office.
Not on my worst enemy
“Indubitably, my three years experience was excruciating and unpalatable, and such that I would not wish on anyone, not even my enemy.” Mr. Igbeke told reporters after his first plenary on Tuesday.
However, the Senate has made no apologies for barring Mr. Igbeke all the while and allowing Mrs Emordi to sit and contribute at Senate debates after the appeal court’s ruling in March and a second order in May. Mr. Igbeke brings the number of opposition senators in the senate to 18 - too few to make any real impact - although his allegiance to the All Nigeria People’s Party on whose platform he was elected, is now in doubt as there are indications that he will move on to another party soon.
He said his experience in the course of winning back his seat proved to him that even if he joined another party, he will have lots of followers.
“Even if I decided to join Alliance for Democracy tomorrow, even if I decided to join CDC tomorrow or whatever party as you may think, they are here, they know themselves; they know my kind of person.
“I am in politics because of my commitment to impact on the lives of the people and this is something I have started so many years back ever before I join this trade called politics and people will be ready to go with me to whatever platform I might decide to go to.” Mr. Igbeke said.
I forgive Mrs Emordi
Mr. Igbeke, in an interview with reporters, said he has forgiven Mrs Emodi and everybody else that offended him while the struggle for his seat lasted.
He said he will put the past behind him, let Mrs Emodi enjoy the allowance she had taken, and focus on his duties in the Senate while hoping that his future allowances will be catered for.
“I want to concentrate on how to focus myself and then get myself acclimatized with the system and I’ve decided to adopt what is called reflective thinking, this reflective thinking means that you look at your past learn from it and use it to forge ahead. I must tell you that I’ve forgiven those who offended me including my opponent,” Mr. Igbeke told NEXT. “I’m putting everything behind me. I’m not bothered about whatever money may have been collected, but I do know that senate is a law making body that believes in law and I know that they will be honourable enough to give me my suppose entitlement when I ask for it.”
Mr Igbeke has about one year to spend as a senator and says he will focus it on providing quality representation to his people.
“I assure the people of Anambra North of quality representation such that they have never experienced before,” he said.
Mr. Igbeke who before now cut the picture of a lone combatant fighting to be admitted into the Senate, was yesterday trailed by a mammoth crowd which came to felicitate with him over his victory.
Some Nollywood stars like Mama Gee, Mr. Ibu, Victor Osuagwu and Kanayo O Kanayo were also at the National Assembly to felicitate with the new senator.
The crowd was later treated to a party in celebration of the victory at the International Conference Centre in Abuja.
President Goodluck Jonathan has named Attahiru Jega, a former president of the Academic Staff Union of Universities, as the new chairman of the Independent National Electoral Commission.
Mr. Jega's appointment was approved today at the meeting of the Council of State, which largely composed of former heads of state and state governors.
His nomination, which still requires the approval of the Senate, followed the recent sack of the former electoral commission boss, Maurice Iwu.
Mr. Jega, a Professor of Political Science, is the current vice chancellor of Bayero University, and a former consultant to the commission and participated in the electoral reform project headed by Justice Mohammed Uwais.'
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The National Assembly, in a unanimous decision, has approved the nomination of Kaduna State governor, Namadi Sambo as the nation’s Vice President.
The Senate’s plenary session lasted barely 10 minutes after the correspondence from the President was read, officially notifying the Senators of the President’s
nomination.
The nomination was approved in absentia as Mr Sambo did not attend the Senate’s session. The Federal House of Representatives held its session at the same time
with that of the Senate. The office of the Vice-President became vacant
when Goodluck Jonathan became President.
Profile:
Mohammed Namadi Sambo was born on the 2nd of August, 1954 in Zaria, Kaduna State of Nigeria. He started his Educational Career between the year 1959 at Baptist Primary School, Kakuri, Kaduna, Kobi Primary School
in Bauchi and Towns School No. 1 in Zaria. Between 1967 to 1971, he
attended Government Secondary School now Alhuda-Huda College in Zaria.
He attended the School of Basic Studies at the Ahmadu Bello University,
Zaria in 1972, after which he gained admission into the famous
Department of Architecture, Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria 1973 and
graduated in 1976 with Bachelor of Science degree with Honours in
Architecture (B. Sc. (Hons) and holds a Masters degree (M. Sc.) Arch
1978. He served with the Oyo State Ministry of Works and Housing for the
National Youth Service Corps up to August1979.
In 1988 he was appointed Honourable Commissioner for Works, Transport and Housing, Kaduna. In 1990, Namadi Sambo left the service of Kaduna State Government and went back to his private practice.
In May 2007, Mohammed Namadi Sambo assumed office of the Governor of Kaduna State, Nigeria. His term ended on 18 May 2010.
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This 21'st century Peter Pan has defied scientists .A genetic condition (Anageria) opposite to progeria which some speculate Paris Hilton and many other women and MEN will kill for ! Brooke Greenberg is a miracle.
Scientists are hoping to gain new insights into the mysteries of ageing by sequencing the genome of a 17-year-old girl who has the body and behaviour of a tiny toddler.
PHOTO:Brooke Greenberg "baby", then aged 9, with sister Carly who was 6
Brooke Greenberg is old enough to drive a car and next year will be old enough to vote — but at 16lb in weight and just 30in tall, she is still the size of a one-year-old.
Until recently she had been regarded as a medical oddity but a preliminary study of her DNA has suggested her failure to grow could be linked to defects in the genes that make the rest of humanity grow old.
If confirmed, the research could give scientists a fresh understanding of ageing and even suggest new therapies for diseases linked to old age.
“We think that Brooke’s condition presents us with a unique opportunity to understand the process of ageing,” said Richard Walker, a professor at the University of South Florida School of Medicine, who is leading the research team.
“We think that she has a mutation in the genes that control her ageing and development so that she appears to have been frozen in time.
“If we can compare her genome to the normal version then we might be able to find those genes and see exactly what they do and how to control them.”
Such research will be the focus of a conference at the Royal Society in London this week to be attended by some of the world’s leading age researchers.
It follows a series of scientific breakthroughs showing that the life span of many animals can be dramatically extended by making minute changes in single genes.
The work began with tiny worms known as C elegans, which normally live for only about a fortnight. Researchers have been able to extend their life span by up to 10 weeks by making small changes in certain genes.
Scientists have gone on to discover that mutating the same genes in mice had the same effect.
“Mice are genetically very close to humans,” said Cynthia Kenyon, professor of biochemistry at the University of California, San Francisco, who is a key speaker at the Royal Society.
“The implication is that ageing is controlled by a relatively small number of genes and that we might be able to target these with new therapies that would improve the quality and length of human life.”
The laboratory findings have been supported by research into humans, focusing on families whose members are long-lived. In one recent study Eline Slagboom, professor of molecular epidemiology at Leiden University, Holland, collected data on 30,500 people in 500 long-lived families to find the metabolic and genetic factors that make them special.
“Such people simply age slower than the rest of us,” she said. “Their skin is better, they have less risk of diseases of old age like diabetes, heart disease and hypertension and their ability to metabolise lipids and other nutrients is better. The question is: what is controlling all these different manifestations of slow ageing?
“So far, the evidence suggests that there could be just a few key genes in charge of it all. If we can find out where they are and how they work, it opens the way to new therapies against the diseases of ageing that could work in all of us.”
Walker and other researchers, including Kenyon, believe that finding the cause of Brooke Greenberg’s condition could be one way to pinpoint some of those genes.
Superficially, Brooke, who lives with her parents Howard and Melanie Greenberg and her three sisters in Reisterstown, a Baltimore suburb, is frozen in time. She looks and acts as if she were a small toddler — for 17 years her family has changed her nappies, rocked her to sleep and given her cuddles.
Brooke has shown some development, including crawling, smiling and giggling when tickled but she has never learnt to speak and still has her infant teeth.
But she has also suffered a succession of life-threatening health problems, including strokes, seizures, ulcers and breathing difficulties — almost as if she were growing old despite not growing up.
Howard Greenberg, Brooke's father, said he wanted the genome research carried out in the hope it might help others.
He said: "Brooke is just a wonderful child. She is very pure. She still babbles just like a 6 month old baby but she still communicates and we always know just what she means."
Walker and his colleagues, who are working with Brooke’s parents to ensure she benefits from any research findings, have just published a research paper which suggests that in reality some parts of her body have indeed aged — but slowly and all at different rates.
“Our hypothesis is that she is suffering from damage in the gene or genes that co-ordinate the way the body develops and ages,” he said.
“If we can use her DNA to find that mutant gene then we can test it in laboratory animals to see if we can switch if off and slow down the ageing process at will.
“Just possibly it could give us an opportunity to answer the question of why we are mortal.”
Jerly Lyngdoh: World’s oldest baby:
Surgeons and pediatricians in India have been puzzled after discovering a 26-year-old man trapped inside the body and mind of a child aged between one and two years.Jerly Lyngdoh – who is still dressed in baby clothes by his parents – has a head circumference that babies 9-12 months old have, measures 84 cm like any two-year-old and weighs 22 pounds.
“Jerly’s infantile features are remarkable, and the only things he shares with an adult are his teeth,” Dr. J. Ryndong told the Hindustan Times.
According to the pediatrician, Lyngdoh suffers from poor secretion of growth hormones from the pituitary gland.
“His is a case opposite to progeria, which means advanced ageing, and we have reasons to say Jerly is a rarity,” Ryndong added. He ruled out the genetic factor, since all six of Jerly’s siblings have no physical or mental disability.
“We also plan to seek expertise from the medical world beyond to crack Jerly’s case,” the doctor said.
The former Chief Executive Officer of Zain Nigeria, Bayo Ligali is dead. Mr Ligali died around 12.25pm yesterday. He was aged 52. .
He was credited while at Zain for spearheading the growth of Zain through the introduction of several innovative products and services that rapidly increased the company’s market share in the Nigerian competitive telecoms terrain.
Under his watch, Zain Nigeria, became the fastest growing network despite the challenges posed by board squabbles and several name changes with over 200 per cent increase in base station and switches, and a corresponding increase in network capacity.
Ligali, was a Fellow of the Association of Chartered Certified Accountants (UK) and an Associate of the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria. He had over 15 years top management experience, having held various executive positions within the Unilever Group. Prior to his appointment as CEO of Zain Nigeria in October 2006, he was the Managing Director of Dangote Pasta Plc. He was also a Fellow of the Association of Chartered Certified Accountants and an Associate of the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria.
He will be remembered as the CEO who publicly apologised to Zain subscribers for poor quality of service which was a recurring decimal in the telecoms industry. He also pledged and took immediate steps to remedy the situation through accelerated network expansion of Zain.
In order to ensure that Zain had a network capacity that will tackle the challenges posed by poor quality service, he secured over $1 billion in investment from the Zain and in no time tripled the subscriber base of the company.
Ligali resigned his appointment with Zain Nigeria last year after three years of overseeing the company for ‘’personal reasons’’.
The race for the Vice-President’s position heated up yesterday, even as arrangements were made to lay the body of the former president to rest.PHOTO: NUHU RIBADU
It emerged yesterday that several groups used Mr. Yar’Adua’s burial as a forum to lobby and express interest in the job. Some of the groups who have started lobbying include the PDP, the northern political group, Arewa political forum, and the family of the deceased former president.
As many as 20 names were bandied about yesterday in the nation’s capital, and all the groups have drawn up shortlists which they will submit to the president.
Theophilus Danjuma, Yayale Ahmed, and Nuhu Ribadu have emerged as early favourites to be appointed vice president as early as next week. Other names that were rumoured were Aminu Masari, Nasir El-Rufai, Aliyu Gusau, Adamu Aliero, Bukola Saraki, and Isa Yuguda.
Theophilus Danjuma, a Christian northerner, would be a surprise choice, given that he prefers to be more of a kingmaker. He has certainly earned the president’s trust after he was named chair of the presidential advisory board.
Yayale Ahmed, the secretary general of the federation, has played a pivotal role in the transition of power to Goodluck Jonathan. He would be seen as a safe pair of hands to steady the ship over the next twelve months.
During Yar’Adua’s three month visit to Saudi, Yayale largely handled the administration of state affairs in the late president’s absence.
Nuhu Ribadu would be a populist choice and NEXT has exclusively reported that he was already earmarked for a role in Jonathan’s administration.
The intention had been to appoint him as a special adviser on anti-corruption, but the dynamics of power have changed in the past 48 hours. Widely seen as an incorruptible individual, his presence in the vice-president’s position would considerably raise the nation’s profile internationally. Furthermore, he would no longer have the stigma of a court case hanging over him, as the federal government officially withdrew all charges against him a few days ago.
The recently returned Nasir El-Rufai would also be a widely accepted pick. Unlike Ribadu however, he must still contend with charges brought against him by the EFCC if he is to realistically stand a chance. The former FCT minister has remained coy about his political ambitions over the next year, but has firmly stated that he would return in some capacity.
Aliyu Gusau has been more overt about his intentions for higher office, but he lost out to Yar’Adua in 2007 after contesting for president. He was surprisingly appointed National Security Adviser by Jonathan in February, and many saw that as a stepping stone to the vice presidency, and to something ultimately higher. At 68, Mr. Gusau is a shrewd politician and would fit in to the role with aplomb.
The Yar’Adua family is believed to have nominated the Bauchi state governor, Isa Yuguda, but his chances are not believed to be particularly good.
The former speaker of the House of Representatives, Aminu Masari, is a dark horse in the race, but certainly has the credentials to be considered. Another Obasonjo confidante, Mr. Masari has been a very vocal champion of electoral reform, a key policy in Jonathan’s fledgling administration. A Katsina State indigene, he is one of the suspended members of the PDP reform forum and had a poor relationship with Yar’Adua.
Mr.Saraki, a member of the Governors’ Forum, has long harboured ambitions for the presidency and this may be an opportunity for him to fulfil his ambition. The Kwara State governor has done some noteworthy things during his tenure, but Mr. Jonathan will be wary of the power that the Governors’ Forum wields.
It sounds an impossible challenge: to make love every day for a month. But a series of studies have found that as well as bringing you closer together, it could help improve your well being. SARAH KAVANAGH, 31, a project co-ordinator, and her husband Colin, 40, a builder, from Cheshire, decided to try it. So how did they fare? Sarah says:
On the eve of the 12th anniversary of our first date, I told my husband Colin that I'd got him a very special gift that would remind us both just how much we still mean to each other.
As he tried to guess what it might be I assured him that this was something far more meaningful than a weekend away or a blown-up photograph from our wedding album.
His gift was, in fact, to make love with me every day for the following month.
Happy bedfellows: Sarah and Colin Kavanagh wanted to revive their romance
Colin's immediate reaction, just as I'd hoped, was to look like a man who'd been told he'd won the Lottery.
But almost immediately his face then fell.
'We used to have sex every day as a matter of course,' he said grumpily. 'Now you're offering it up as a gift and I'm supposed to be grateful?'
This really wasn't what I'd expected, having just offered love on request to the man I married seven years ago and who is always bending my ear that we don't do it enough. Somehow my well-meant offer had suddenly brought us to the brink of a row.
I'd come up with the idea because, in common with so many couples, in recent years lovemaking had been relegated in my agenda.
Unlike the heady days when Colin and I first met, now there is always something
else that takes precedence - from work to domestic chores and even
the simple pleasure of a full night's sleep.
When we met, I was 19 and Colin ten years older - the sexual attraction was mutual and instant. For the first few months, our passionate love life defined us, but as months turned to years and we got engaged and then married, things inevitably changed.
Over time, familiarity, the stresses of work and day-to-day life and the fact my sex drive just isn't what it used to be have combined to dampen the passion we once took for granted.
Groundhog Day: Colin was delighted then concerned that Sarah's special anniversary 'present' would take the spontaneity out of their love life
These days we make love about once a week. And, in common with many of my friend's husbands, Colin regularly complains that this just isn't enough.
Which is why I'd presumed that this gift would be welcomed rather than the cause of a row.
Later that evening, we talked it through.
'At least when we do it, it's spontaneous,' Colin told me. 'You putting it into your diary isn't exactly a turn on.'
But despite his reservations, we decided to give it a go.
Somehow I felt certain that in the years ahead he would look back on this as the most intimate gift of our marriage.
DAY ONE
There's no time like the present, so, for the first time in at least five years we make love on a work day before I've even put the kettle on.
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So much for Colin worrying about this taking the spontaneity out of sex: this feels impulsive and slightly wicked.
I arrive at work with a smug smile on my face (though guiltily note that this also means I'm off the hook at bedtime, having done the day's deed already).
DAY TWO
Home from work later than usual, I walk in to find the table beautifully set with candles and flowers and dinner in the oven.
The last time Colin did this was our wedding anniversary, but this is just an ordinary evening. It's amazing what the promise of frequent sex brings out in a man.
DAY THREE
Home to find the table set and Colin's cooking again - I could get used to this. I feel spoilt, especially when he refuses to let me wash up and sends me upstairs for a soak in the bath. This is beginning to feel as much a gift for me as for Colin.
DAY FOUR
I've stayed late at work and missed the last bus home, so I've had to fork out for a taxi when I'm dangerously close to payday. I'm in a foul mood when I walk into the house and am greeted by the same scene as the last two days.
'God, this is starting to feel like Groundhog Day,' I snap unkindly. We eat in silence, and I start to feel guilty when I think how much effort Colin is making. 'Leave the dishes,' I tell him. 'It's time for your present.'
DAY FIVE
Last night could so easily have ended with us going to sleep not speaking after I arrived home so tired and grumpy.
Instead we slept wrapped up in each other's arms, just like the old days. It's Saturday, so we're less restricted on when we can make love. We decide to get our chores done: the house needs cleaning and Colin needs to tackle the garden.
We're shattered and fall asleep on the sofa. Colin's snoring wakes me up just before midnight. 'Quick,' I tell him, as I shake him awake and push the cats out of the room. 'Otherwise it won't count.'
DAY SIX
Sundays in our house are normally lazy affairs, but today we've got a christening to go to and we're running late.
We vow to make love as soon as we get home, but while Colin doesn't drink, I'm partial
to champagne, and it's been flowing all afternoon.
Back home, all I want to do is go to bed and sleep, but, of course, I can't.
Struggle: Sarah has to wake Colin up on day five to make love before midnight so that 'it still counts'
DAY SEVEN
I'm beginning to wonder if this was such a good idea.
Last night, love-making felt like a chore for the first time, and because neither of us was particularly in the mood we just went through the motions.
I'm not looking forward to bedtime and Colin admits he's not interested either. Sure enough, we fall asleep without any marital relations taking place. Looks like this could be over before it got started.
DAY EIGHT
I wake up cross with both of us that we've given up so easily, and tell Colin we've got to make up for last night by making love twice today.
We tackle the project with renewed vigour before work and then again straight after dinner.
'At least now we can go to bed and go straight to sleep,' says Colin. I feign indignation, but he's only said exactly what I was thinking.
DAY NINE
Colin wakes up hoping for a repeat performance of yesterday, but I'm not playing. I have to be in work early. 'Tonight, I promise,' I say as we kiss goodbye.
What's normally a brief kiss turns into a passionate one - not bad considering we've been together more than a decade. I think about Colin regularly through the day.
DAY TEN
My sister calls to remind me that I've promised to baby-sit my 11 and 14-year-old nieces this weekend. I
tell her that I'm worried this might impact on our lovemaking.
'Welcome to my world,' she scoffs, before telling me I can't back out on my sisterly duties. I tell Colin that we have to practise being very quiet.
DAY 11
The girls arrive armed with DVDs and bags of sweets, and announce they want to stay up really late, just like they did last time they stayed over. By 11pm, I'm pleading with them to go to sleep.
'Forget it,' I snap at Colin when I finally get under the duvet. There's no way I can do that with the girls awake on the other side of the wall.
DAY 12
'I've lost 2lb. All this extra exercise is doing me good'
Little wonder couples with children complain they don't have enough sex: finding an opportunity with these two in the house is all but
impossible.
In the end, I send them out with a long shopping list, set the timer on my phone to go off in ten minutes and drag Colin upstairs. 'Look on it as a challenge,' I tell him.
DAY 13
The girls go home and we've got the house to ourselves. Midmorning I say breezily: 'I'll just vacuum and then we can go to bed.'
Bad move. I accidentally suck up one of the girl's hair bobbles and it gets stuck in the machine.
It takes Colin an hour to get it going again, by which time love is the last thing on either of our minds. But we do it anyway and then go out for lunch, something we realise we just don't do often enough.
DAY 14
I go out for a drink after work with a girlfriend and tell her about our project. 'You must be mad,' she says, before warning me that our friendship will be ruined if Colin or I tell her husband what we're up to. 'Don't you dare go giving him any daft ideas.'
DAY 15
I'm going to be working late tonight, so I set the alarm for 6am so we can get our duties out of the way before the day gets started. Colin grunts when I try to nudge him awake. 'I need my sleep,' he groans.
Maybe he'll be a bit more understanding when he's in the mood for love and I say that I'm too tired.
DAY 16
Friends come round for a midweek dinner and comment on how attentive we seem to each other. I keep quiet about why, having taken note of my friend's reaction earlier in the week, but throw Colin a wink.
We're definitely a lot more tactile with each other, and have started flirting again.
DAY 17
I spoke too soon - we've had a huge row over the fact that Colin forgot to put out the bin last night and now we're up to our eyes in rubbish.
He can't see why I'm making such a fuss, which only makes me madder. The last thing I want to do is to make love with Colin. Normally something like this would be the perfect excuse to withhold sex, but that's not an option.
It's difficult to stay cross with someone you've made love to - Colin promises to make a trip to the tip and all is forgiven.
DAY 18
I've got a streaming cold and a headache. Colin is keeping his distance. 'What about a cuddle?' I ask as I splutter into a tissue. 'No thanks,' says Colin. 'I'm sleeping in the spare room.'
DAY 19
Still poorly, so I stay in bed. Colin spends the day bringing me hot drinks and homemade soup, and does all the housework so I can rest.
He's never been this attentive when I've had a cold before - all this lovemaking has made him a changed man.
DAY 20
The weekend has been a write-off on the sex front, yet Colin and I feel closer and more relaxed than we have in a long time.
It brings it home to me how important regular sex in a marriage is to nurture the bond you share.
DAY 21
Back to work, and I'm almost restored to full health. I send Colin a flirty text hinting at the fun we'll be able to enjoy when we see each other later. I can't believe I'm chatting up my own husband.
DAY 22
I notice that my trousers are a little looser, so I step on the scales and discover I've lost 2lb. All this extra exercise is doing me good.
DAY 23
A friend is in town and stays the night. I'd emailed her at the start of the month and told her what we were doing, which she brings up over dinner, joking that we'd better not keep her awake tonight.
This puts Colin in a bad mood because I've let slip what we're up to, and when she goes to bed he has a go at me for being indiscreet. I try to laugh it off, but he's really cross about it. He refuses to make love. I lie awake fuming - isn't it supposed to be the woman who withholds favours?
DAY 24
Colin wakes feeling guilty and suggests we make up for missing out yesterday. I realise that the argument will only escalate if I refuse. Instead, we make love and the grumpiness vanishes. We make love again that evening, our row long forgotten.
DAY 25
I meet my mum for lunch and she comments on how fresh-faced I appear. 'Have you discovered a new
foundation?' she asks.
I must say I feel more attractive and better about myself than I have in years. Feeling desired does wonders for a woman's self-esteem.
DAY 26
I'm having to factor in an extra ten minutes into my daily grooming regime so I can shave my legs, and I'm wearing more make-up than usual.
I'm going to continue with this after the month is up - it's nice to feel groomed, whether it's with sex in mind or not.
DAY 27
We're near the end of Colin's gift, so we decide to spend the entire day in bed, just as we did on Sundays when we first became a couple. It's not just about sex - it's about relishing shutting out the rest of the world. We'd like a family, so we need to make the most of days like this.
DAY 28
We've made love 25 times in 28 days, and there's no question that we've grown closer as a result.
I thought I might be relieved to get to the last day, but I'm just determined to make sex far more of a priority than it used to be.
My friend has lent me a DVD I've wanted to watch for ages, so I put it on after dinner. Colin and I cuddle up on the sofa together to watch it - normally he spreads out on one chair while I take over another.
'When did we stop doing this?' I ask him. We go to bed tired and we've got work in the morning.
'Let's just cuddle,' says Colin, and as we drift off to sleep it feels like the perfect end to the present that ended up being a gift not just for Colin, but for our marriage, too...
The dramatic search for James Ibori, the former Delta State governor who has been declared wanted for financial misdemeanour, by the Nigerian Police and the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), may be nothing but a ruse.
Sources who spoke with NEXT over the weekend said that not only is Mr. Ibori hiding in Agbor, a town in his home state, but the two anti corruption agencies, the EFCC and the police, are aware of Mr. Ibori’s whereabouts. Contrary to reports that the former governor has been hiding in his country home in Oghara, he is allegedly hiding with a friend of his in Agbor, a small town which is about 2 hours away from Oghara.
Multiple sources in the Nigerian security circles told NEXT that the EFCC is aware of Mr. Ibori’s current location and that this would not be the first time that the anti corruption agency would be feigning ignorance of his whereabouts.
“The EFCC knows that Ibori is not in his hometown. When the EFCC first said that they were looking for Ibori and went looking for him in Oghara, they knew that he was right here in Abuja. He was at that time in the Kwara Guest House, in Asokoro,” a source said.
The police’s charade
Behind the elaborate display shown by the Nigerian police in a bid to arrest Mr. Ibori, was an apparent decision to do the contrary, sources said. Security sources who spoke to NEXT said the authority chosen to effect Mr. Ibori‘s arrest, showed that the police was not really interested in arresting the former governor.
“If they really wanted to arrest him, why would they pick the Deputy Inspector General of Police (DIG), for works and for operations to be in charge of the operation? Why not use the DIG in charge of the Force Criminal Investigation Department,” a security source queried.
“The police intelligence is fully aware of Ibori’s movement but there appears to be the lack of operational will,” our source added.
The police spokesman, Emmanuel Ojukwu however denied that the police has any knowledge of Mr. Ibori’s current location saying that the police is still looking for the former governor.
“We are still looking for him wherever he is. I cannot say that the police is aware of where he is but all I can say is that we are looking for him,” Mr. Ojukwu said.
EFCC responds
The EFCC also says that it is at the moment working on a new strategy to beat Mr. Ibori to his game. A strategy which the commission says it is no longer interested in sharing with the Nigerian public.
“We don’t want to discuss this because every information we give out gets back to him [Mr. Ibori],” the spokesman of the commission, Femi Babafemi, told NEXT in Abuja.
Mr. Ibori’s spokesperson, Tony Elumunor, however said that Mr. Ibori’s current location is not relevant and should not be a subject of public debate.
“The man you are talking about is a private citizen and he is not on the run but simply obeying the court ruling which asked that everyone should maintain the status quo,” Mr. Elumunor said in a telephone interview with NEXT..
In the last two weeks, media reports have placed Mr. Ibori in several places; Oghara- his home town, the Niger-Delta Creeks, and as having escaped the country en route Dubai. The latest location,
has in history served as a refuge for a larcenous prince who ran away from his home town.